I was raised a t-shirt KU fan. When it came time to apply to schools, I was dead set on attending a high end private school.
I was accepted about everywhere I applied, but didn't have good enough scores for the big scholarships, and not quite needy enough for Pells and stuff.
My parents did a very good job of explaining how mumped in the ass I would be with student loans if I went the private school route.
So, I visited both KU and KSU several times. I enjoyed my visits to KSU a great deal more. Pat Bosco was actually a big factor for me. So, I chose KSU at a time when sports were crap at KSU. I remember remarking to a friend who had just selected KU that if I was going to major in watching basketball, I would have selected KU as well.
I later received a graduate degree from KU, which provided me with my career.
I don't regret my undergrad or my hard choices. It all worked out really well.
I still believe that KSU is a better undergrad experience and KU (Lawrence in particular) is a better grad experience.