Honeymoon

[420seriouscat69]

Rethink what I was getting into. My buddy was dating his girl for 4 years and they broke up last year. He knew the parents hated him and it would never work. A lifetime is a long time to be hated. 

[ChiComCat]

Please, it's about showing respect to your future fil

Yeah, totally this, sheesh, Mrs. Gooch.

What would you do if the FIL said no?

I think just about anyone would do it anyway.  I don't think it is sexist, I think it is more about the father passing the torch to the future husband.  The torch just happens to be taking care of a girl that can't take of herself without a man's help.

[420seriouscat69]

Also, if you wanna move fwd in the process anyways. That's a good time to ask the fil what the eff his problem is with you.

[420seriouscat69]

Please, it's about showing respect to your future fil

Yeah, totally this, sheesh, Mrs. Gooch.

What would you do if the FIL said no?

I think just about anyone would do it anyway.  I don't think it is sexist, I think it is more about the father passing the torch to the future husband.  The torch just happens to be taking care of a girl that can't take of herself without a man's help.

[Mrs. Gooch]

What if lesbians get married? Who is supposed to ask who for permission???

[ChiComCat]

What if lesbians get married? Who is supposed to ask who for permission???

They both should ask God for permission

[Mrs. Gooch]

Please, it's about showing respect to your future fil

Yeah, totally this, sheesh, Mrs. Gooch.

What would you do if the FIL said no?

I think just about anyone would do it anyway.  I don't think it is sexist, I think it is more about the father passing the torch to the future husband.  The torch just happens to be taking care of a girl that can't take of herself without a man's help.

 

[slobber]

What if lesbians get married? Who is supposed to ask who for permission???

The lesbian who is the dominant partner (male role) should ask the weak lesbian's father.

[420seriouscat69]

Mrs. Gooch, I think you're over thinking this one.

[Mrs. Gooch]

What if lesbians get married? Who is supposed to ask who for permission???

The lesbian who is the dominant partner (male role) should ask the weak lesbian's father.

Why is the more feminine one the weak one?????

[Mrs. Gooch]

Actually my ex-step-niece just got married. She is butch and her wife is feminine. I should ask her if she asked for permission from the wife's father. I am sure he approved because he got ordained just so he could be the officiant at their wedding.

[420seriouscat69]

My uncles both talked to their opposing parents. It was a mutual thing. 

[mocat]

mrs. 'blast and me decided to do two nights in times square and then fly down to st. martin. all on points

well i'll be gal danged if that doesn't sound familiar. are you staying at the new sonesta AI? there are 3 on the island now.

[slobber]

What if lesbians get married? Who is supposed to ask who for permission???

The lesbian who is the dominant partner (male role) should ask the weak lesbian's father.

Why is the more feminine one the weak one?????

SCIENCE!

[Mrs. Gooch]

What if lesbians get married? Who is supposed to ask who for permission???

The lesbian who is the dominant partner (male role) should ask the weak lesbian's father.

Why is the more feminine one the weak one?????

SCIENCE!

They both have female bodies. There is no science saying that one of them is weaker.

[ChiComCat]

Seriously though, I asked my FIL because it was important to my wife.  I largely defer to her regarding her side of the family.  If she didn't care about it, I wouldn't have bothered.

[mocat]

i enjoy mrs gooch - slobber interactions

[Mrs. Gooch]

Seriously though, I asked my FIL because it was important to my wife.  I largely defer to her regarding her side of the family.  If she didn't care about it, I wouldn't have bothered.

If your wife is fine in her role as a piece of property to be traded among men then I guess that is fine.

[mocat]

i did not ask permission because that is ridiculously old fashioned, but i did talk to FIL before asking, and told him i planned on asking soon, and asked for his "blessing", so to speak

[star seed 7]

That's just a hippie way of asking permission

[mocat]

That's just a hippie way of asking permission

yeah i guess so

[Mrs. Gooch]

That's just a hippie way of asking permission

Asking permission implies that you won't do it if he says no.
Asking for a blessing acknowledges that the woman is free to make her own choices without her father's permission, and therefore no permission is needed. And he will still ask her to marry him even if the father doesn't give a blessing.

[wetwillie]

I don't get mocat humor so I'm not sure exactly what just happened here

[ChiComCat]

Seriously though, I asked my FIL because it was important to my wife.  I largely defer to her regarding her side of the family.  If she didn't care about it, I wouldn't have bothered.

If your wife is fine in her role as a piece of property to be traded among men then I guess that is fine.

It was a blessing not permission situation regardless.  I think with us "living together in sin" for years, they knew that we were going to do what we wanted.

[slobber]

i enjoy mrs gooch - slobber interactions

I constantly destroy her because she is of the weaker sex.