Guys. This is a serious matter. This isn't grey/gray matter. Though grey matter is very serious matter. If grey matter were a hatter it would be the most sane hatter ever. That's how serious this is.
Girls. This is a serious matter. You're already ridiculous and irrational as all get out. ALL GET OUT, no need to cloud the pool even further. or is it farther? Get to know your father, unless you already know him too well in that case kill him, but get to know him and get that sorted out. Marry him or not, then get back to letting me know the origin of your SN.