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Re: Tipping
« Reply #200 on: January 07, 2015, 02:29:07 PM »
What service would you be tipping for at a drive-through?  You literally were made to drive a several thousand pound deathtrap up to a specially made window so you could awkwardly exchange goods through an open car window with exhaust fumes bellowing about.  No one is going the extra mile for you.  By comparison, at a drive-in, someone went out of their way to come up to your car, ask you what you want, go back inside, have it made, and bring it straight out to you.  How thoughtful and pleasant, tip city!

Well it's not that much different from when I go inside at Pita Pit. They are still standing in the same place just making my pita. Yet there is a tip line on the receipt so they must think that tipping is at least warranted if not the norm. Maybe the tip is for making the pita?

I'd always thought that it's just that the POS system the restaurant uses includes a tip line on the receipt.

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Re: Tipping
« Reply #201 on: January 07, 2015, 02:31:09 PM »
I always assumed places like Pita Pit put a tip line on the receipt so you can tip your delivery driver when you pay with a credit card.

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Re: Tipping
« Reply #202 on: January 07, 2015, 02:37:57 PM »
OK, so here is the scenario...

We have a cleaning lady who we hired to clean our house, an individual person, not a cleaning service - although she also has a couple of ladies that assist her. Last year I gave her a Christmas tip.

But this year I have realized that she is no longer actually coming to clean the house herself, only a couple of other ladies who I have never met (except for a few weeks ago when I took a vacation day on cleaning day) are cleaning. So I didn't leave her a tip this year.

Was I wrong?

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Re: Tipping
« Reply #203 on: January 07, 2015, 03:22:26 PM »
OK, so here is the scenario...

We have a cleaning lady who we hired to clean our house, an individual person, not a cleaning service - although she also has a couple of ladies that assist her. Last year I gave her a Christmas tip.

But this year I have realized that she is no longer actually coming to clean the house herself, only a couple of other ladies who I have never met (except for a few weeks ago when I took a vacation day on cleaning day) are cleaning. So I didn't leave her a tip this year.

Was I wrong?

not judging you for hiring a cleaning lady, but like who is making your house dirty...?
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Re: Tipping
« Reply #204 on: January 07, 2015, 03:34:49 PM »
OK, so here is the scenario...

We have a cleaning lady who we hired to clean our house, an individual person, not a cleaning service - although she also has a couple of ladies that assist her. Last year I gave her a Christmas tip.

But this year I have realized that she is no longer actually coming to clean the house herself, only a couple of other ladies who I have never met (except for a few weeks ago when I took a vacation day on cleaning day) are cleaning. So I didn't leave her a tip this year.

Was I wrong?

not judging you for hiring a cleaning lady, but like who is making your house dirty...?

Me & Gooch? It is not super dirty, just like normal "maintenance" cleaning like dusting and vacuuming.

Are you saying that I should tip because we are making it dirty??? That is what we pay the normal price for. If I tipped her then the tip doesn't even go to the people actually cleaning.

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Re: Tipping
« Reply #205 on: January 07, 2015, 03:49:09 PM »
OK, so here is the scenario...

We have a cleaning lady who we hired to clean our house, an individual person, not a cleaning service - although she also has a couple of ladies that assist her. Last year I gave her a Christmas tip.

But this year I have realized that she is no longer actually coming to clean the house herself, only a couple of other ladies who I have never met (except for a few weeks ago when I took a vacation day on cleaning day) are cleaning. So I didn't leave her a tip this year.

Was I wrong?

not judging you for hiring a cleaning lady, but like who is making your house dirty...?

Me & Gooch? It is not super dirty, just like normal "maintenance" cleaning like dusting and vacuuming.

Are you saying that I should tip because we are making it dirty??? That is what we pay the normal price for. If I tipped her then the tip doesn't even go to the people actually cleaning.

nope, completely unrelated to tipping. just assumed most people who hired cleaning services did so because they had people (children) making a mess in their house.

i dont think youre wrong for not tipping her.
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Re: Tipping
« Reply #206 on: January 07, 2015, 04:02:50 PM »
We have a cleaning lady because we don't have kids and are therefore :kstategrad: so we would rather pay her to clean than waste our spare time cleaning.

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Re: Tipping
« Reply #207 on: January 07, 2015, 04:08:25 PM »
if you are going to tip, obviously, the tip needs to go to the actual people cleaning, not the person sending them there.  it's not too late after xmas/new years to still tip them if you wish to.
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Re: Tipping
« Reply #208 on: January 07, 2015, 04:13:09 PM »
if you are going to tip, obviously, the tip needs to go to the actual people cleaning, not the person sending them there.  it's not too late after xmas/new years to still tip them if you wish to.

I leave the payment in an envelope with the one lady's name on it...So if I want to tip them, what would I do, leave another envelope with "People who actually clean" written on it?

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Re: Tipping
« Reply #209 on: January 07, 2015, 04:30:57 PM »
leave a note addressed to "the cleaners" or whatever that you appreciate their service and here is something extra to show your gratitude and leave the money unenveloped under the note.  then leave the regular envelope at least 12 inches away from the note.
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Re: Tipping
« Reply #210 on: January 07, 2015, 04:34:12 PM »
leave a note addressed to "the cleaners" or whatever that you appreciate their service and here is something extra to show your gratitude and leave the money unenveloped under the note.  then leave the regular envelope at least 12 inches away from the note.
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Re: Tipping
« Reply #211 on: January 07, 2015, 04:35:11 PM »
then don't tip them, sheesh
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Re: Tipping
« Reply #212 on: January 07, 2015, 06:16:59 PM »
If the service was good enough last year to warrant a tip, but her specific services didn't this year you are right to not tip her. Tips are at the discretion of those being served. BTW I am a generous tipper when service is good, and average tipper when service is standard.

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Re: Tipping
« Reply #213 on: December 17, 2015, 11:37:31 AM »
Do you guys tip on to go orders?

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Re: Tipping
« Reply #214 on: December 17, 2015, 11:38:56 AM »
Do you guys tip on to go orders?

Yep, but not the same as dine in.  I mean, half the work is still there.

I tip around 10% on pick up.

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Re: Tipping
« Reply #215 on: December 17, 2015, 11:39:54 AM »
Do you guys tip on to go orders?

It kind of depends on where I'm ordering from.

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Re: Tipping
« Reply #216 on: December 17, 2015, 11:40:36 AM »
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Re: Tipping
« Reply #217 on: December 17, 2015, 11:40:46 AM »
Yeah, i'm grabbing some food to go from tavern today. I haven't ordered to go in a long time, but I really need to work through lunch. I was curious. Thanks!

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Re: Tipping
« Reply #218 on: December 20, 2015, 08:07:51 AM »
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Re: Tipping
« Reply #219 on: December 20, 2015, 08:10:31 AM »
Mailman.  Tip?  Have never done this.  Should I?

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Re: Tipping
« Reply #220 on: December 20, 2015, 08:22:30 AM »
Double Yew Tee F? Tipping the mailman now I've heard it all.
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Re: Tipping
« Reply #221 on: December 20, 2015, 07:00:20 PM »
I've never heard of tipping the mailman but the mailman that delivered to my house in Manhattan always carried dog treats and would give my dog one every time they interacted. Great guy

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Re: Tipping
« Reply #222 on: December 20, 2015, 07:46:47 PM »
I've never heard of tipping the mailman but the mailman that delivered to my house in Manhattan always carried dog treats and would give my dog one every time they interacted. Great guy
Can't tip them cash. I know that much.

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Re: Tipping
« Reply #223 on: December 20, 2015, 08:06:50 PM »
I've never heard of tipping the mailman but the mailman that delivered to my house in Manhattan always carried dog treats and would give my dog one every time they interacted. Great guy
Can't tip them cash. I know that much.
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Re: Tipping
« Reply #224 on: December 20, 2015, 08:08:52 PM »
Canary, you are one fascinating dude. 
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