So, I read the whole thread.
1. While what Stunz said is actually pretty true don't change who you are to attract more guys. That is dumb and you will be miserable.
2. Prob should date more dudes who are not attorneys (not that attorneys are bad dudes or anything).
3. Do you want to have kids in the future?
I say and ask these things because you are actually pretty awesome long-term material if, and only if you are willing to not make your job your 95% of your life. Though I know it may be hard to do that now, but you will have to slow down in the future. I say your are awesome long-term material for a few reasons,
a. you're smart and independent and can take care of yourself (though this won't win you any macho ultra-provider types it will do you wonders with rational dudes)
b. you're good enough looking (I think I've met you), but you don't look to sexy, or slutty. It is a look that will prob age well
c. you do know sports and are actually cool and not bimboish. this is super important for longterm stuff.
The reason I ask about kids and mention working so much is that if you were to eventually marry a guy I doubt you would want to give up your career forever but making the money you do, regardless of whether or not your dude makes a ton (don't date complete losers) is a real positive. You can take time off when a kid is young and ave money saved over, while your dude still works. etc. Then when the kid/ kids start school you can go back to work or whatever, or you can go back earlier. I'm just saying it makes for a lot of flexibility.
I mentioned dating outside attorneys because there are a lot of good jobs that good dudes have that might not make a TON of money but would work well with you. Teachers, firefighters, these types of jobs attract guys who make okay money, but also attract quality people. Another positive about this is these guys ave the time to be good husbands/ dads, etc. because they have a lot of time off.
P.S. I think I met you at the WVU pak but I could be mistaken. If I didn't disregard the being cool and looks stuff.
Edit: Another reason I mentioned firefighter, teacher types is because these kinds of dudes know that their careers aren't huge moneymakers but get into them anyway. So while they probably won't resent you for making good money, they probably won't be the pussy clinger-on types that Stunz was talking about. It is a good balance.
