what would i lose or gain by posting my picture?
You're quick to anonymously call a despondent suicide victim "chickencac" but when challenged you don't have the balls to put up? Figures.
What did you gain by posting your hurtful comment? What would it have cost you to just let it pass? Nothing, except a little less stroke for your ego. You need to think next time before you post such crap.
Instead of fighting with people on the internet who you've never met/will never meet, why not go mourn the loss of your (boy)friend?
Why am I here? I was doing an internet search, trying to find any scrap of clue to find him and saw something was posted here. When someone does what you did, I'm not just going to ignore it. They deserve to be called out.
btw, I am a parent and friend of the family. The kid grew up with mine. I only hope his parents did not see what you posted. If you ever have kids, then you'll understand.
I'm done posting here, sorry to invade everyone's perfect little world with some reality.