Here's a situation I was in recently:
On a work trip in a foreign country with three women. We had one day off, split off after lunch to do our own thing - girls were getting a massage with a woman who works in the local (foreign) office - and we had plans to meet for dinner at 6. At about 5:45, I get an email from the local person saying, "Hey, we're having dinner at this place by my house. You can take a 30 minute cab to get here if you want!" I look up the restaurant on tripadvisor and the first review mentions cabs getting lost on the way, and I have no cell phone service in this country to call for directions, and I don't speak the local language. Also I had a late lunch and wasn't very hungry.
How does chingon act in this situation?