I'm with Clams and SD on this 100%. They nailed it, as anticipated.
1. We are too old for this crap.
2. He is married. (2 years)
3. I didn't know either one of them while they were dating.
4. They have been apart for over 3 years.
In conclusion. I did nothing wrong, broke no code, and any violence perpetrated upon me will be met with legal recourse.
Oh, and his wife knows. She is the mayor of crazy town apparently. I deem this matter is closed until further notice.