Mrs. Hamburg & I just had a serious conversation about hobbies. She has hobbies. I don’t. I mess with something for 2 months then move on. I want to be able to comfortably retire at 55ish. I probably won’t, but I’ve seen enough people have jobs they like that then change in their mid-50s & they still have to slog out 7 more years in a job they hate. I don’t want that. However, she’s worried that I won’t know what to do if I do retire early. She’s not really pushing me on it now because I have years until retirement, but she’s already thinking about it. It’s not really a midlife crisis, but it’s a realization that the kids will be out of the house in 10 years & what the hell am I am going to do with the rest of my life.