ah, got it. so when confronted about it, elon couldn't even bring himself to deny the allegation, just an actual deflection (dax you should really watch elon if you want to see what a deflectocon looks like in practice). But hey, the ADL, which has been cozying up to elon for the last couple years, says its fine.
i suppose a foundation of gaslighting would be to accuse others of gaslighting, indicating that your stance on gaslighting is that gaslighting is bad.