I am by no means the ultimate judge here but if people have a problem with that they they can safely be told to eff off.
That's the point. There's always going to be a problem with something that someone says, yet it's only Democrats that get hit with "bad messaging."
How absolutely awful have Republicans been with the messaging with this pregnant 10 year old girl? Every time they open their mouths about it they are either lying or saying something amazingly insensitive. It wouldn't be hard to say something to the effect of, " this is a very unique case and we aren't interested in legislating 10 year old rape victims, our focus on defending the right to life is greater than this specific case." They're aren't saying that because religious fundamentalists would go wild.
Republicans can cater to their extremists and people just chalk it up to business as usual. Democrats try to actual consider the feelings of their constituents and moderates lose their minds. They don't say anything and people cry, they defend trans people and their allies and people cry. I'd rather they err on the side of vocally defending the marginalized but I understand why they don't, even though they put themselves in this position.