I'm sad.
I'm sad that there are so many racist, misogynist, homophobes that Trump could get this many votes. I thought we were moving past that.
I'm sad that suburban white women would use the privileged afforded to them by the suffering of many women before them to vote for someone who hates them.
I'm sad that the third party voters thought it was more important to make a statement than to protect their fellow Americans from policies that could take away their rights and dignity as human beings.
I'm sad that my lesbian friend is afraid she won't have the chance to marry her girlfriend. I'm sad that my transgender friend is fearful that future legislation will not protect them.
I'm sad that there is the possibility that American women in the future will have to consider unsafe illegal abortions.
I'm sad that many of those assholes are my own family members.
I'm really sad that my dad would have been the only family member I could have commiserated with and I can't call him. 
Hi MrsG, couple things...
1. I'm really sorry you can't talk to your dad about this. My political discussion with my dad are one of the things I cherish most, so I'm really sorry you've lost that. But I bet if you really think and pray on it, he can still speak to you.
2. Check out my silver linings post - there really are some.
http://goEMAW.com/forum/index.php?topic=38336.03. Things seem bad now, but they're really not as bad as you depict. Your gay friend has nothing to fear. Abortion rights will remain largely untouched. And while I know you can't see it now, those people you are calling racists, misogynists (all of whom have mothers, sisters, daughters, etc.), and homophobes had very legitimate reasons to vote against Hillary Clinton, and even for Donald Trump.
Keep your head up.
