I agree with the being married is great crowd.
And the secret to avoiding the "you don't pay enough attention to me kick" is to pay some attention. A good wife (mine is the best) will realize some guy time is good for you, but that doesn't give you a right to be a selfish prick. And remember marriage isn't about the crap in movies, sometimes it is work. But in the end if you and your wife can meet in the middle on most things those times are infrequent and it will make for a good life for both of you.
JMHO.