Wacky I think I am befuddled. Your uncles and.your family seem to be very cool and supportive of their relationship. I thought the whole crux of expanding the parameters of marriage was because gay couples wanted to have the legal rights as hetromarrieds. In my church God's parameters for marriage is different than the state's. God sees everything. No place to hide. I am sinful and without Christ taking.the.punishment for them, I.would.be.lost.too.