Author Topic: Sanctuary: Privileged White Male - Coping Thread (Read 5425 times)

Fake Sugar Dick (WARNING, NOT THE REAL SUGAR DICK!) · « **on:** November 10, 2015, 09:25:01 PM »

This thread is a safe zone for white males to share stories of injustice, prejudice and unwarranted aggression in their lives, and to support and encourage one another, free from the cynism and critics and hate that non white males pile upon us. It is: SANCTUARY

I'll start: Today was an extremely rough day. I was the subject of several micro aggressive acts, and I'm not sure I feel safe anywhere in Kansas.

Around 10 am some bitch asked me if I was going anywhere for thanksgiving??? How dare she assume I celebrate the holiday where the wasps trick mumped the Indians into thinking they were friends. I'm going to my in-laws, I replied

Noon, lunch hour, "how's you fantasy team doing". What the hell, just because I'm a white dood, I like football and dream of being some corporate suit building a championship team of skill players??? "Laveon Bell and Jamal Charles are rough ridin' me"

Driving home, get a text about barbecuing this weekend. I don't reply. My first instinct is to drive off the highway on ramp into the settling pond below. eff.

This crap is systemic, and it's set up to derail me at every turn. I can't handle this. I need restitution from the institution.

Fake Sugar Dick (WARNING, NOT THE REAL SUGAR DICK!) · « **Reply #1 on:** November 10, 2015, 10:51:49 PM »

Earlier today I was reading about how angered same sex couples were at birth certificates having a place for mother and father, and how it should say parent 1 and parent 2. I shared this story with my wife and we got in a huge argument over who would get to be parent 1. We're getting a divorce and drawing out of a hat to allocate the children.

This got me empathizing about the single mother, who must just feel like a trash human being staring at the blank space that is parent 2. Which got me thinking about those poor polygamist families who have mothers who aren't permitted to identify as such on government papers. This government is so mumped with its boilerplate Disney fairy tales. Hire an army of lawyers and get your job done properly, with a degree of sensitivity that is humane under the circumstances.

renocat · « **Reply #2 on:** November 11, 2015, 10:08:43 AM »

I got home late last night from a business meeting. Renosweets gave me that modern man would do it look, so next thing I knew I was cleaning the toilet and missing the end of the debate. At work I can't tell a joke for fear of being labelled a putrid scum suckling crass hog.

Fake Sugar Dick (WARNING, NOT THE REAL SUGAR DICK!) · « **Reply #3 on:** November 11, 2015, 10:32:56 AM »

Went to work this morning, AGAIN, for like the 200th time this year

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #4 on:** November 11, 2015, 10:39:36 AM »

OMG!

Dugout DickStone · « **Reply #5 on:** November 11, 2015, 11:51:19 AM »

I don't think you are privileged at all

K-S-U-Wildcats! · « **Reply #6 on:** November 11, 2015, 12:41:53 PM »

Quote from: Dugout DickStone on November 11, 2015, 11:51:19 AM

I don't think you are privileged at all

Get the eff out out of here or I'm gonna get some muscle. This is a SAFE SPACE.

FSD and Reno, I love you guys. Thank you for sharing. I am wiggling my fingers in the air in support. Let's meet up around 10-ish to loot some crap. We loot because we love.

Fake Sugar Dick (WARNING, NOT THE REAL SUGAR DICK!) · « **Reply #7 on:** November 11, 2015, 12:59:17 PM »

Kumbaya, ksu-w, and thank you for defending Sanctuary. Hopefully this will become a theraputic Shangri-la for our group. So long as non/anti-believers aren't permitted to speak, I believe it can be.

Feel free to share you experiences with social injustice.

Fake Sugar Dick (WARNING, NOT THE REAL SUGAR DICK!) · « **Reply #8 on:** November 11, 2015, 01:03:20 PM »

Windows 10 uploaded today. It speaks to me in a woman's voice. This is hurtful because it's clearly intended to force the female gender upon me. This, I feel, is macro-aggression, because it is a default setting - no option prior to upload. Sadness

Emo EMAW · « **Reply #9 on:** November 11, 2015, 01:14:47 PM »

Did you see the Google search page today? Good grief.

renocat · « **Reply #10 on:** November 11, 2015, 02:30:36 PM »

What about Slow Men Working signs. I work fast. Men are not sloths.

Fake Sugar Dick (WARNING, NOT THE REAL SUGAR DICK!) · « **Reply #11 on:** November 11, 2015, 02:38:23 PM »

Quote from: Emo EMAW on November 11, 2015, 01:14:47 PM

Did you see the Google search page today? Good grief.

Disgusting. The one white guy who isn't fading into oblivion is, inconspicuously, waiving his hand like a moron as of to say "hey, I'm still relevant!". Not in this society is system bigotry you arent. Stay in the back over there

Fake Sugar Dick (WARNING, NOT THE REAL SUGAR DICK!) · « **Reply #12 on:** November 11, 2015, 02:39:06 PM »

Quote from: renocat on November 11, 2015, 02:30:36 PM

What about Slow Men Working signs. I work fast. Men are not sloths.

How do they make you feel???

It's okay, this is Sanctuary

The Big Train · « **Reply #13 on:** November 11, 2015, 02:42:08 PM »

man, this thread

renocat · « **Reply #14 on:** November 11, 2015, 02:58:39 PM »

Quote from: Fake Sugar Dick (WARNING, NOT THE REAL SUGAR DICK!) on November 11, 2015, 02:39:06 PM

Quote from: renocat on November 11, 2015, 02:30:36 PM
What about Slow Men Working signs. I work fast. Men are not sloths.

How do they make you feel???
It hurts. Dammit it hurts. I have been traumatized since youth. My sisters use to point to these signs at say look at all those loafers working in slow motion. This would start and argument that would end 10th my mom balling me out and dad saying treat my sisters with respect. I am headed to a dark room.

It's okay, this is Sanctuary

MakeItRain · « **Reply #15 on:** November 11, 2015, 10:40:01 PM »

Quote from: The Big Train on November 11, 2015, 02:42:08 PM

man, this thread

It's confirmation

Fake Sugar Dick (WARNING, NOT THE REAL SUGAR DICK!) · « **Reply #16 on:** November 11, 2015, 10:52:43 PM »

Quote from: MakeItRain on November 11, 2015, 10:40:01 PM

Quote from: The Big Train on November 11, 2015, 02:42:08 PM
man, this thread

It's confirmation

You two bigots are polluting Sanctuary

MakeItRain · « **Reply #17 on:** November 11, 2015, 11:51:51 PM »

You should change all references to while male privilege to global white supremacy, being that you love whitlock and all, that's a much better descriptor.

Fake Sugar Dick (WARNING, NOT THE REAL SUGAR DICK!) · « **Reply #18 on:** November 12, 2015, 08:26:50 AM »

Quote from: MakeItRain on November 11, 2015, 11:51:51 PM

You should change all references to while male privilege to global white supremacy, being that you love whitlock and all, that's a much better descriptor.

Of all people, you were the last I thought would disrespect this sa few zone. #smh

renocat · « **Reply #19 on:** November 12, 2015, 09:25:56 AM »

I have never raped or thought of raping a woman. The fe-demonist are trying to portray every young man on campus to be a leach that is ready to pounce on a woman. Their goal is psychological castration. White God fearing males are their main target. Well this is one male white guy that has had enough. I am going to respect woman but not be in submission to squirrel brain man haters who daddies did not.love them.

LickNeckey · « **Reply #20 on:** November 12, 2015, 11:50:26 AM »

One time I had a mohawk and tried to return a defective tent to the store of purchase. I was denied the return and told that I did not know how to care for things. I returned the next day after shaving said hawk and was allowed to return without question.

it kind of sucked and hurt to be treated in such a fashion but also realizing that I needed only to change my hear style to be treated fairly made me sad on many levels.

Fake Sugar Dick (WARNING, NOT THE REAL SUGAR DICK!) · « **Reply #21 on:** November 12, 2015, 09:43:14 PM »

LN, welcome to Sanctuary, we feel your pain.

Today I was walking into my office the same time as a woman. My first instinct was to open the door for her. But then I thought, what if she's offended by my white male misogynist micro aggression? But then I thought, well it is polite and I would do it for another man. But would i? I don't know. Then I looked up and the woman was gone and my coffee was cold.

wetwillie · « **Reply #22 on:** November 12, 2015, 09:46:49 PM »

One of my friends in high shool was white and from a very wealthy family. He is a white male. One week during basketball season he did his hair in corn rows. When he went to visit the country club he and his family members had been part of for years to retrieve his golf clubs for a round, he was told it was a members only club and that he would need to leave.

renocat · « **Reply #23 on:** November 13, 2015, 09:03:12 AM »

I am irked at women trying to push boneless meat as.good.

K-S-U-Wildcats! · « **Reply #24 on:** November 13, 2015, 09:46:17 AM »

I am pretty tired of always getting questions about my "white" hair. People don't seem to understand how offensive and microaggresive that is. YES, I have to use product to make it look as good as it does. YES, I have to towel it dry after showering. WGAF?