I PM'd bread a while back, just in case. No answer.
He might be dead.
I think we need to come up with board-buddies. Like, even if you never desire to meet anyone here in person, you still need to disclose to one person you are IRL. Just so the rest of us have some closure if you die. Maybe we just make Trim like the trusted party, and everyone can tell him who they are and Trim promises to never tell until you are dead. That seems reasonable.