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CNS · « **Reply #75 on:** April 28, 2014, 12:22:35 PM »

The obvs answer is to wait until the GF moves, move in with her unofficially, search for job, and mooch until job is found. Especially if you guys are getting married.

ydarg2012 · « **Reply #76 on:** April 28, 2014, 12:44:10 PM »

Quote from: CNS on April 28, 2014, 12:22:35 PM

The obvs answer is to wait until the GF moves, move in with her unofficially, search for job, and mooch until job is found. Especially if you guys are getting married.

Only issue here is her super conservative / religious family. I know they won't approve of us living together till after a ceremony.

OK_Cat · « **Reply #77 on:** April 28, 2014, 12:45:02 PM »

Quote from: ydarg2012 on April 28, 2014, 12:44:10 PM

Quote from: CNS on April 28, 2014, 12:22:35 PM
The obvs answer is to wait until the GF moves, move in with her unofficially, search for job, and mooch until job is found. Especially if you guys are getting married.

Only issue here is her super conservative / religious family. I know they won't approve of us living together till after a ceremony.

if you're already worried about doing something based on what her parents think, then your life is over.

michigancat · « **Reply #78 on:** April 28, 2014, 01:06:25 PM »

Quote from: ydarg2012 on April 28, 2014, 12:44:10 PM

Quote from: CNS on April 28, 2014, 12:22:35 PM
The obvs answer is to wait until the GF moves, move in with her unofficially, search for job, and mooch until job is found. Especially if you guys are getting married.

Only issue here is her super conservative / religious family. I know they won't approve of us living together till after a ceremony.

well I think you need to decide how devoted you are to this thing. I mean, I'm guessing you're already lying about part of the relationship, what's the harm in lying about living with her for a couple months?

The Big Train · « **Reply #79 on:** April 28, 2014, 01:11:26 PM »

i mean do her parents live in DC? if not then they would never rough ridin' know

ydarg2012 · « **Reply #80 on:** April 28, 2014, 01:13:23 PM »

Quote from: The Big Train on April 28, 2014, 01:11:26 PM

i mean do her parents live in DC? if not then they would never rough ridin' know

Columbia SC. It really comes down to the fact I'd rather not have to lie to her parents. But, her and I have had this conversation more than once. I might give myself another month or two of saving then just go.

The Big Train · « **Reply #81 on:** April 28, 2014, 01:16:29 PM »

Quote from: ydarg2012 on April 28, 2014, 01:13:23 PM

Quote from: The Big Train on April 28, 2014, 01:11:26 PM
i mean do her parents live in DC? if not then they would never rough ridin' know

Columbia SC. It really comes down to the fact I'd rather not have to lie to her parents. But, her and I have had this conversation more than once. I might give myself another month or two of saving then just go.

It won't be the first, or the last time you will lie about something to her parents. It would help you out a lot more if you just moved to DC tho

EllRobersonisInnocent · « **Reply #82 on:** April 28, 2014, 01:17:40 PM »

Quote from: ydarg2012 on April 28, 2014, 12:44:10 PM

Quote from: CNS on April 28, 2014, 12:22:35 PM
The obvs answer is to wait until the GF moves, move in with her unofficially, search for job, and mooch until job is found. Especially if you guys are getting married.

Only issue here is her super conservative / religious family. I know they won't approve of us living together till after a ceremony.

Tell them to get mumped. It's 2014 for crying out loud.

michigancat · « **Reply #83 on:** April 28, 2014, 01:19:05 PM »

Quote from: ydarg2012 on April 28, 2014, 01:13:23 PM

Quote from: The Big Train on April 28, 2014, 01:11:26 PM
i mean do her parents live in DC? if not then they would never rough ridin' know

Columbia SC. It really comes down to the fact I'd rather not have to lie to her parents. But, her and I have had this conversation more than once. I might give myself another month or two of saving then just go.

Are you guys banging? Do you tell them about it?

CNS · « **Reply #84 on:** April 28, 2014, 01:29:03 PM »

Banging or no, do yourself a favor and live together for a while before pulling the trigger.

Just tell the parents you live across town in a dump. They will never want to visit your dump when in town and you can explain away your stuff in the apt by saying you spend most of your time there and don't want it stolen from your dump as there are a lot of robberies in that area.

Either that, or tell them to get mumped.

Lying would be the kind thing to do but would be some bullshit you have to keep in the back of your head for a while. Them getting mumped would be easier.

EllRobersonisInnocent · « **Reply #85 on:** April 28, 2014, 01:32:46 PM »

Reason #2840 that religion is rough ridin' stupid.

felix rex · « **Reply #86 on:** April 28, 2014, 01:44:26 PM »

Sounds like you're gonna be lying to her parents for decades. Might as well start now. They'll probably know but still appreciate the subterfuge.

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CNS · « **Reply #87 on:** April 28, 2014, 01:46:01 PM »

I would imagine one of the best, most considerate, things you could do as a man, who is banging another man's daughter, is to lie to him about said banging until the first kid pops out.

felix rex · « **Reply #88 on:** April 28, 2014, 01:48:12 PM »

In all seriousness, you're wasting a valuable stretch of time over an issue the parents won't give a crap about once you're married and treat her right. Think long term and deal with it.

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The Tonya Harding of Twitter Users Creep · « **Reply #89 on:** April 28, 2014, 01:52:42 PM »

don't know why anyone would ever consider getting married without cohabitating for at least a few months.

guess that's for another thread, though.

CNS · « **Reply #90 on:** April 28, 2014, 01:55:41 PM »

Quote from: The Tonya Harding of Twitter Users Creep on April 28, 2014, 01:52:42 PM

don't know why anyone would ever consider getting married without cohabitating for at least a few months.

guess that's for another thread, though.

"STFU" - the lawyers on here that are divorce lawyers.

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #91 on:** April 28, 2014, 01:57:25 PM »

michigancat · « **Reply #92 on:** April 28, 2014, 02:01:06 PM »

I think you should have to have kids together before you get married, because that's when crap really hits the fan.

The Big Train · « **Reply #93 on:** April 28, 2014, 02:01:55 PM »

is her dad robert de niro's doppelganger and also a retired cia agent?

Dugout DickStone · « **Reply #94 on:** April 28, 2014, 02:06:11 PM »

yeah, her not wanting to live with you because of her parents is just her not wanting to live with you. I shacked up with plenty of girls who had conservative parents. they liked to stick the rebellion in their faces.

The Tonya Harding of Twitter Users Creep · « **Reply #95 on:** April 28, 2014, 02:09:02 PM »

would be very worried to date, especially marry a gal who still listened to her parents about such big decisions in her life.

The Tonya Harding of Twitter Users Creep · « **Reply #96 on:** April 28, 2014, 02:10:06 PM »

ydarg is her father still listed as "daddy" in her cell phone?

puniraptor · « **Reply #97 on:** April 28, 2014, 02:41:45 PM »

yard dog, i think the smart move here is to rent and pay for a separate apartment to keep up appearances even though you will be staying at her place 95%-99% of the time.

Dugout DickStone · « **Reply #98 on:** April 28, 2014, 02:58:44 PM »

Quote from: puniraptor on April 28, 2014, 02:41:45 PM

yard dog, i think the smart move here is to rent and pay for a separate apartment to keep up appearances even though you will be staying at her place 95%-99% of the time.

her parents will respect the money you are pissing away to create the ruse

michigancat · « **Reply #99 on:** April 28, 2014, 03:11:36 PM »

hell, just say you're staying there until you find a job.