I prob only initially agreed to pak because two people that I had know for a long time (Pete and lsoc) were going to be there and I knew I could count on pete to keep things lively and lsoc to sneak off with if anything got weird or uncomforable. it never did.
the average pakr likes to watch the kats, likes to drink and maybe eat while doing so and has the background knowledge of this board and different threads and maybe something funny that was said sometime. I mean, you kind of underestimate how much you prob have in common and how much you really have to talk about just cause you've never met face to face.
all that said, if you're 99% sure that you're some kind of weirdo or something, don't come. just because nothing has got weird yet doesn't mean it has to.