Sometimes I wanna change it up a bit and say: "I'd take that girl out on a date for a nice Italian dinner, with a bottle of wine. I want to take her out on several dates, get to know her, respect her, and build a foundation with her. After building such a relationship, we'd finally become romantically involved, but not until she was ok/comfortable with it. And then i'd try and do it again after that". and just watch the guys faces.