Master Dating Thread

[Stevesie60]

Sounds like Mrs. Gooch regrets marrying Gooch. Sad, I've always thought of them as goEMAW's #1 couple.

[Mrs. Gooch]

Sounds like Mrs. Gooch regrets marrying Gooch. Sad, I've always thought of them as goEMAW's #1 couple.

I don't regret marrying him; but I'd probably be just as happy if we were still living in sin together.

[Asteriskhead]

I needed the commitment, Mrs. Gooch. I wouldn't want to waste my time on someone who may or may not be just killing time until something better came along.

so basically what you're saying is you don't want to be without a ransom?

[Mrs. Gooch]

I needed the commitment, Mrs. Gooch. I wouldn't want to waste my time on someone who may or may not be just killing time until something better came along.

so basically what you're saying is you don't want to be without a ransom?

I think I said this once before in this thread, but why can't the relationship just be about enjoying your time with someone you like (or love) and growing as a person and as a couple rather than have to have an end goal of marriage?

[star seed 7]

I needed the commitment, Mrs. Gooch. I wouldn't want to waste my time on someone who may or may not be just killing time until something better came along.

so basically what you're saying is you don't want to be without a ransom?

I think I said this once before in this thread, but why can't the relationship just be about enjoying your time with someone you like (or love) and growing as a person and as a couple rather than have to have an end goal of marriage?

i agree, but some people are insecure and need a legal commitment.

[8manpick]

I needed the commitment, Mrs. Gooch. I wouldn't want to waste my time on someone who may or may not be just killing time until something better came along.

so basically what you're saying is you don't want to be without a ransom?

I think I said this once before in this thread, but why can't the relationship just be about enjoying your time with someone you like (or love) and growing as a person and as a couple rather than have to have an end goal of marriage?

religions

[yoEMAW]

I needed the commitment, Mrs. Gooch. I wouldn't want to waste my time on someone who may or may not be just killing time until something better came along.

so basically what you're saying is you don't want to be without a ransom?

I think I said this once before in this thread, but why can't the relationship just be about enjoying your time with someone you like (or love) and growing as a person and as a couple rather than have to have an end goal of marriage?

social conventions

[Trim]

I needed the commitment, Mrs. Gooch. I wouldn't want to waste my time on someone who may or may not be just killing time until something better came along.

so basically what you're saying is you don't want to be without a ransom?

I think I said this once before in this thread, but why can't the relationship just be about enjoying your time with someone you like (or love) and growing as a person and as a couple rather than have to have an end goal of marriage?

gE screen names.

[Willesgirl]

Some of it is social convention. Some of it is religion. But it's more than that, for me. It's difficult to explain. Why did you get married, Mrs. G., if you think it's unnecessary?

[Mrs. Gooch]

Some of it is social convention. Some of it is religion. But it's more than that, for me. It's difficult to explain. Why did you get married, Mrs. G., if you think it's unnecessary?

I probably got married because he asked and I felt like getting married that day - also wanted to take a trip to Vegas.   
But I wasn't in the relationship thinking "This better end in marriage or it was all a waste of my time."
I'm not even saying I followed my own advice - I'm telling you how I feel after all the years of wisdom I have gained. LOL

Getting married isn't a guarantee that it is going to last either.

[Willesgirl]

I am glad to hear have the insight of your years of wisdom.

This will sound more desperate than it really was, but I didn't want to waste the pretty. For some reason, I worry about ending up alone with 1,000 cats. Getting married doesn't guarantee I won't, but it feels, I don't know, more secure??

[Gooch]

JFC I think I just got my period reading all this.

[Mrs. Gooch]

All I'm really trying to say is that marriage shouldn't be the only goal in a relationship because then you are going to feel like it was a total waste of your time if it doesn't end in marriage or it ends in divorce. Make sure to enjoy the journey, not just the destination; and then you grew as a person no matter how it ends.

[Mrs. Gooch]

JFC I think I just got my period reading all this.

STFU

[steve dave]

that is very depressing wg

[Spracne]

For me, it was all about, "How do I shut this bitch up for a while and also save a little on my taxes?" but I understand that each person's individual life journey is different and special.

Also, LgEIQ here, but are these actual females or socks?

[Asteriskhead]

JFC I think I just got my period reading all this.

STFU

 

[8manpick]

For me, it was all about, "How do I shut this bitch up for a while and also save a little on my taxes?" but I understand that each person's individual life journey is different and special.

Also, LgEIQ here, but are these actual females or socks?

Mrs. Gooch is real, I've met her.  Willesgirl is also real, and I've met him, it's Fanning.

[star seed 7]

For me, it was all about, "How do I shut this bitch up for a while and also save a little on my taxes?" but I understand that each person's individual life journey is different and special.

Also, LgEIQ here, but are these actual females or socks?

50/50

[Trim]

Is this whole willesgirl thing kind of what that Her movie is all about?  Haven't seen it, obvs, but heard there was some good acting in it.

[Willesgirl]

that is very depressing wg

Just being honest about my feelings and vulnerabilities, SD.

[steve dave]

that is very depressing wg

Just being honest about my feelings and vulnerabilities, SD.

well, it doesn't seem depressing to you so what I think shouldn't matter.

[420seriouscat69]

JFC I think I just got my period reading all this.

STFU

 

Great sequence!

[slobber]

Marriage is not an ending.

[Dugout DickStone]

that is very depressing wg

Just being honest about my feelings and vulnerabilities, SD.

Your honesty is bumming us all out