I can't fathom playing basketball with strangers.
Wasn't michcat the guy that started the "small talk at work" thread on the old site? Can't remember. If so, seems odd to be uncomfortable with small talk with coworkers but comfortable playing basketball with strangers.
My favorite part is the awkwardness of manning up at the start of the game, when you have to say I have "such-and-such guy."
watching people fumble around with this when the most salient characteristic of the person they're talking about is something deemed inappropriate to say about some dude they don't know. I think this is mostly a white thing (not exclusively of the midwestern variety). The old black dudes at the gym here are marvelously direct. "I got the old bald dude" and "I got JV shoes over here."