At the end of the day, it's probably best if one doesn't allow themselves too get worked up over message board postings. I've yet to meet anybody IRL from goEMAW that I didn't get along with just fine and truly value all the friendships I've made here. I've always found it best to just assume that (generally speaking) people can be whomever/whatever they want behind their screen-name and that sometimes that character is who they really are and sometimes it's just that, a character.