I've got a cousin who's a REAL LOSER.
My great aunt never had any kids and was would always spoil us, loser cousin abused the crap out of this and ended up living with her for about 3 years. She bought him a car and paid for so much crap that she had to un-retire and go back to work for a bit. Loser cousin had his GF and her TWO KIDS from a previous marriage move in to my great aunts 2 bedroom duplex before she finally kicked him out. She is now in an old folks home and the guy doesnt even visit and probably has not seen her in a year despite living 20 minutes away. She got in a small accident a couple of months ago and stopped driving, cousin hears about it and asks if he can have her vehicle.

He tried the same thing with my gpa before moving in with the great aunt but gpa said no way. Then when my gpa was in ill health the last year of his life he didnt want to move out of his house so me and my siblings/parents took turns staying at his place and brining him meals etc. Loser cousin would only stop by during christmas to pic up his check for $100 from gramps despite living 2 miles away.
