Torn The eff Apart is a band from the KC area that plays the new age, we wanna be badasses junk you like MoCat. Nothing groundbreaking but at least its heavy and you might find them live if you are from that area.
For something with a little more meat on the bone you could listen to some Hellwell. It's more eclectic and some decent Doom Metal from Mark Shelton of Manilla Road, who used to be from Wichita.
Goatwhore is a damn good American band as is Averse Sefira if you are man enough to take it. Europe is the place to find some really great Black Metal though.
Yeah I think "metal" is being applied to two vastly different musical genres here.
I'm in to more progressive metal, you know, key/tempo changes, absurd time signatures, guitar harmonies, catchy melodies, etc
Basically, listen to "Faust" by Human Abstract
you are describing more like sludgy type death/black metal. not really my thing