Everytime I read JT's stuff, I find a way to find commonality with him and then ways to hate him. One minutes it's
The next it's,

with an occasional,

I have a feeling if I actually knew you, you would be that friend that everyone talked crap on to your face - and you just let it happen because talking crap was like male bonding for you... like using "dick-head" as a term for endearment - but really everyone thought you were a dickhead.
Other friends would talk crap about you when you weren't around, but only to people that knew you; then later defend you explaining what a good guy you were when people had to defend you when their girlfriend & her friends talked about what a douche you were.