If I was in college now I don't know if I'd join a fraternity. I think it's sad that the heads of national fraternities are telling new members to do as we say not as we did. Now I understand certain things often were taken too far but good grief what is this with initiating new members in like 3 weeks? I personally felt I grew up a lot during pledgeship due to having structure for the first time in my life. I honestly needed it and when I/we got initiated it felt like I/we earned something because I/we spent an entire semester getting hazed pretty badly. Now it's hey wanna join our fraternity? Okay, say this oath and you're in.
Also dry houses?
I've never understood people willingly getting hazed, are most people just that weak willed?
I don't associate being hazed with being weak willed. In fact I find there are many pros to it such as bringing a group of people closer, weeding out people who don’t want to take the process seriously, teaches humility, promotes discipline and a sense of shared pride. And ask anyone here who in a Fraternity which hazed and they'll tel you looking back at it you just laugh and it makes for some great stories when you get together with your pledge bros.
And lets be honest there was no beatings, and no one was forced to do crap like the elephant walk or eff sheep.
i was a pledge almost 10 years ago, and everyone took making sure all that didn't happen very seriously. given how ridiculously sensitive everyone is now, there's no way it has gotten worse, and anything you hear is going to be an outlier. still, fraternities are going to be the most polarizing group, cause more people are yoloing. which is way better than everyone being a square, unless you are a huge square (mir).