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Title: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
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Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: WillieWatanabe on May 25, 2010, 04:53:06 PM
 :runaway:
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Dirty Sanchez on May 25, 2010, 05:07:14 PM
 :bs: :garr:
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Brock Landers on May 25, 2010, 05:11:36 PM
Depends on what they look like.  Much easier to accept if you picture 2 smokin' hot chicks together.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Cire on May 25, 2010, 07:45:31 PM
looks like God will give them rights soon.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Dirty Sanchez on May 25, 2010, 09:31:40 PM
looks like God will give them rights soon.

They have rights already.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Cire on May 25, 2010, 09:51:24 PM
looks like God will give them rights soon.

They have rights already.

they don't have the right to be married in kansas.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Dirty Sanchez on May 25, 2010, 09:54:19 PM
looks like God will give them rights soon.

They have rights already.

they don't have the right to be married in kansas.

two straight men or straight women can't do that either.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Cire on May 25, 2010, 09:54:56 PM
hahahahaha
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: AzCat on May 26, 2010, 01:12:54 AM
Pack all the fudge you like KK, I doubt anyone really cares.   :users:
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Sugar Dick on June 02, 2010, 10:00:51 PM
looks like God will give them rights soon.

AIDS???
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: pike on June 02, 2010, 10:48:38 PM
looks like God will give them rights soon.

They have rights already.

they don't have the right to be married in kansas.

two straight men or straight women can't do that either.

ha
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Kat Kid on June 03, 2010, 01:37:39 AM
Very stupid that any one can't form a legal partnership with someone so they can get hospital visitations, streamlined legal rights etc.  All the more reason why the govt should be out of the marriage business and out of the ridic tax subsidy business.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Dirty Sanchez on June 03, 2010, 06:58:57 AM
Very stupid that any one can't form a legal partnership with someone so they can get hospital visitations, streamlined legal rights etc.  All the more reason why the govt should be out of the marriage business and out of the ridic tax subsidy business.

but should be about the rest of our business, amirite?!!?!   :excited:
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: john "teach me how to" dougie on June 03, 2010, 09:01:05 AM
KK wants smaller government.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Festus the Purple Swan on June 03, 2010, 01:14:38 PM
Love is love.

It was love that resurrected Jesus.
It was love that enlightened Buddha.
It was love that made Prometheus steal the flame.

Love surrounds us all and expresses itself in ways that no one can contain.

Love is never wrong.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: DQ12 on June 03, 2010, 01:17:31 PM
Love is love.

It was love that resurrected Jesus.
It was love that enlightened Buddha.
It was love that made Prometheus steal the flame.

Love surrounds us all and expresses itself in ways that no one can contain.

Love is never wrong.
:frown:

Beautiful
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: steve dave on June 03, 2010, 01:53:35 PM
Very attractive and great smelling bunch ((I'm too stupid to find a better word than gay) guys)
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Festus the Purple Swan on June 03, 2010, 02:15:00 PM
Love is love.

It was love that resurrected Jesus.
It was love that enlightened Buddha.
It was love that made Prometheus steal the flame.

Love surrounds us all and expresses itself in ways that no one can contain.

Love is never wrong.
:frown:

Beautiful
Thank you!

Very attractive and great smelling bunch ((I'm too stupid to find a better word than gay) guys)
Don't forget fun.  The most fun you will ever have in your life will include at least one gay person.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: steve dave on June 03, 2010, 02:21:54 PM
Very attractive and great smelling bunch ((I'm too stupid to find a better word than gay) guys)
Don't forget fun.  The most fun you will ever have in your life will include at least one gay person.

yeah  :love:
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: OK_Cat on June 03, 2010, 02:25:23 PM
Totally.  My cousin lives with a bunch of gay guys (they're all music majors), and I went to a party at their house once.  Way more entertaining than a "regular" party.  Love when they call each other "queens" or say "get it, girl"   :lol:
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: SkinnyBenny on June 05, 2010, 11:22:31 AM
Love the dim-witted douche nozzles who go, "gay men already DO have the right to marry!  ....Women!"  Well yeah obviously.  But,
A)  When gay-rights advocates say that gay people should have the right to marry, there's an implicit "whomever they love" that follows.
B)  Because a gay man entering into a fraudulent marriage with a woman that is based entirely on lies and receiving specific benefits is somehow more okay?
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: jmlynch1 on June 05, 2010, 11:46:50 AM
Love the dim-witted douche nozzles who go, "gay men already DO have the right to marry!  ....Women!"  Well yeah obviously.  But,
A)  When gay-rights advocates say that gay people should have the right to marry, there's an implicit "whomever they love" that follows.
B)  Because a gay man entering into a fraudulent marriage with a woman that is based entirely on lies and receiving specific benefits is somehow more okay?
Personally, I prefer my sham marriages to be centered around citizenship.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Havs on June 07, 2010, 12:10:59 AM
looks like God will give them rights soon.

They have rights already.

they don't have the right to be married in kansas.

I take it Iowa is a much more accepting state  when it comes to legal unions. Same-sex 'marriage' has been legal in Iowa now for a year. I don't have a problem with it because marriage in the church and marriage with the state are two different things anyway. The marriage that is allowed between two of the same sex in Iowa is with the state and is basically a legal formality for power of attourny and all other things 'legal.' The marriage that 'counts' IMO is in the church, where it is up to the specific church/religion's discrepancy on whether two of the same sex can 'marry.' Personally, I'm Catholic, and I don't think the Catholic Church should marry two of the same sex. However, I think the US Government should allow legal unions for the 'legal' marriage because the debate on same-sex marriage is based upon a person's morals and religion, not the law.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Kat Kid on June 07, 2010, 06:21:42 AM
Havs well said.  This is a fight for liberty against tyranny.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Cire on June 07, 2010, 07:11:58 AM
Undoubtedly they will be granted these rights in a majority of states some day.  Then we can laugh and call dirty sanchez a bigot.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: john "teach me how to" dougie on June 07, 2010, 09:17:45 AM
I think if the gays would agree to call their unions something other than marriage, they would get much further, much quicker. Even in a state as liberal as California, the majority of people believe the word "marriage" indicates a religious union between a man and a woman.


They also need to stop with the "hate" speech. Every time they don't get their way, it's because everyone who disagrees with  their agenda "hates" gays, which is a fallacy.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Dirty Sanchez on June 07, 2010, 05:56:23 PM
I think if the gays would agree to call their unions something other than marriage, they would get much further, much quicker. Even in a state as liberal as California, the majority of people believe the word "marriage" indicates a religious union between a man and a woman.


They also need to stop with the "hate" speech. Every time they don't get their way, it's because everyone who disagrees with  their agenda "hates" gays, which is a fallacy.

Bingo
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Dirty Sanchez on June 07, 2010, 05:57:20 PM
Undoubtedly they will be granted these rights in a majority of states some day.  Then we can laugh and call dirty sanchez a bigot.

Definition of "bigot": someone who wins an argument with a lib.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Saulbadguy on June 07, 2010, 07:09:20 PM
I think if the gays would agree to call their unions something other than marriage, they would get much further, much quicker. Even in a state as liberal as California, the majority of people believe the word "marriage" indicates a religious union between a man and a woman.


They also need to stop with the "hate" speech. Every time they don't get their way, it's because everyone who disagrees with  their agenda "hates" gays, which is a fallacy.
So it's basically semantics. Gotcha. 
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: CHONGS on June 07, 2010, 07:14:13 PM
lol at 'the gays'.   who uses 'the blank' when describing a group and is not a full-on bigot
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: john "teach me how to" dougie on June 07, 2010, 07:38:16 PM
I think if the gays would agree to call their unions something other than marriage, they would get much further, much quicker. Even in a state as liberal as California, the majority of people believe the word "marriage" indicates a religious union between a man and a woman.


They also need to stop with the "hate" speech. Every time they don't get their way, it's because everyone who disagrees with  their agenda "hates" gays, which is a fallacy.
So it's basically semantics. Gotcha. 

Only to the GLBT crowd. They won't settle for anything less than marriage, even if a civil union is the same thing. On the other side, it is a religious belief. You figure out who is being uncompromising.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: michigancat on June 07, 2010, 08:14:51 PM
I think if the gays would agree to call their unions something other than marriage, they would get much further, much quicker. Even in a state as liberal as California, the majority of people believe the word "marriage" indicates a religious union between a man and a woman.


They also need to stop with the "hate" speech. Every time they don't get their way, it's because everyone who disagrees with  their agenda "hates" gays, which is a fallacy.
So it's basically semantics. Gotcha. 

Only to the GLBT crowd. They won't settle for anything less than marriage, even if a civil union is the same thing. On the other side, it is a religious belief. You figure out who is being uncompromising.

So the Christianists would be fine with government doing away with "marriages" between heterosexuals and only allow civil unions for everyone?  I'm guessing not.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: john "teach me how to" dougie on June 07, 2010, 09:48:27 PM
lol at 'the gays'.   who uses 'the blank' when describing a group and is not a full-on bigot

 :lol:, you just made a fool of yourself.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: john "teach me how to" dougie on June 07, 2010, 09:58:36 PM
I think if the gays would agree to call their unions something other than marriage, they would get much further, much quicker. Even in a state as liberal as California, the majority of people believe the word "marriage" indicates a religious union between a man and a woman.


They also need to stop with the "hate" speech. Every time they don't get their way, it's because everyone who disagrees with  their agenda "hates" gays, which is a fallacy.
So it's basically semantics. Gotcha. 

Only to the GLBT crowd. They won't settle for anything less than marriage, even if a civil union is the same thing. On the other side, it is a religious belief. You figure out who is being uncompromising.

So the Christianists would be fine with government doing away with "marriages" between heterosexuals and only allow civil unions for everyone?  I'm guessing not.

I am all for the government treating all human unions the same, including marriage. But I don't believe all unions should be mandated as a marriage simply because it is a religious ceremony.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Saulbadguy on June 07, 2010, 10:20:15 PM
Eh, just easier to call them all marriages.  Marriage is hardly a religious institution. 
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Sugar Dick on June 08, 2010, 12:21:57 AM
The reason "the gays" aren't getting their way is because they're trying to force everyone into saying that being "the gay" is totally okay(gay guy voice).  If they'd just take the equal legal rights and call it "civil union" they'd have the same rights as "the straights" today. 

IMO, this isn't what "the gays" really want.  What they really want is the government to say that being "the gay" is normal and the same as being "the straight".  In a bassackwards way what "the gays" are trying to do is legislate that their "lifestyle" (for lack of a better word) is no different than anyone else's.  Obviously a lot of people have a problem with this as it is in complete contradiction to the majority of "the straights" religion, morals, and/or ability to stomach the thought of two dudes ass ramming each other.  What they're doing is dragging religion into the argument when they need it as far away as possible.

My take:  nobody likes being told what to do, and they certainly don't like being told what to believe.  Stop trying to force people to believe something they don't.  If equal rights is really what you want, take the equal rights.


Sidebar:  I've read, "only god can give you rights" a lot in these asinine political threads.  I was watching "America:  The Story of Us" on History and they read the declaration of independence and noticed that's basically what it says in the preamble.  I finally get it  :facepalm:, never understood how that always got dropped in these things.

Question:  Can you be an "evolutionist" and believe people are born "the gay"?  Seems like they'd of been extinct awhile ago.

Also, why do people drive on a parkway and park on a driveway?

Sincerely,

The Sweetest tasting Dick this side of the Miss'ippi
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: SkinnyBenny on June 08, 2010, 06:44:55 AM
The reason "the gays" aren't getting their way is because they're trying to force everyone into saying that being "the gay" is totally okay(gay guy voice).  If they'd just take the equal legal rights and call it "civil union" they'd have the same rights as "the straights" today. 

IMO, this isn't what "the gays" really want.  What they really want is the government to say that being "the gay" is normal and the same as being "the straight".  In a bassackwards way what "the gays" are trying to do is legislate that their "lifestyle" (for lack of a better word) is no different than anyone else's.  Obviously a lot of people have a problem with this as it is in complete contradiction to the majority of "the straights" religion, morals, and/or ability to stomach the thought of two dudes ass ramming each other.  What they're doing is dragging religion into the argument when they need it as far away as possible.

My take:  nobody likes being told what to do, and they certainly don't like being told what to believe.  Stop trying to force people to believe something they don't.  If equal rights is really what you want, take the equal rights.


Sidebar:  I've read, "only god can give you rights" a lot in these asinine political threads.  I was watching "America:  The Story of Us" on History and they read the declaration of independence and noticed that's basically what it says in the preamble.  I finally get it  :facepalm:, never understood how that always got dropped in these things.

Question:  Can you be an "evolutionist" and believe people are born "the gay"?  Seems like they'd of have been extinct awhile ago.

Also, why do people drive on a parkway and park on a driveway?

Sincerely,

The Sweetest tasting Dick this side of the Miss'ippi


 :love:  FYP, bro!   :love:
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Dirty Sanchez on June 08, 2010, 07:00:32 AM


Sidebar:  I've read, "only god can give you rights" a lot in these asinine political threads.  I was watching "America:  The Story of Us" on History and they read the declaration of independence and noticed that's basically what it says in the preamble.  I finally get it  :facepalm:, never understood how that always got dropped in these things.



How old are you?  Pretty sad if you didn't know this and you are older than 12.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: michigancat on June 08, 2010, 07:02:32 AM
sugar dick, lots of gays have hetero sex.  Probably because society has told them homosexuality is icky.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Tannoudji on June 08, 2010, 11:14:57 AM
No.  The issue is in black and white.

Leviticus 18:22:
"You shall not lie with a male as those who lie with a female; it is an abomination."

Leviticus 20:13:
"If a man lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination and they shall surely be put to death

Romans 1:26-27:
"For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions: for their women exchanged the natural use for that which is against nature.  And in the same way also the men abandoned the natural use of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty for their error."

I Corinthians 6:9:
"The unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God. So do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, shall inherit the realm of God."

I Timothy 1:9-10:
"Law is not made for a righteous person but for those who are lawless and rebellious, for the ungodly and sinners, for the unholy and profane, for those who kill their fathers or mothers, for murderers and fornicators and homosexuals and kidnappers and liars and perjurers, and whatever else is contrary to sound (healthy) teaching."

Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Pete on June 08, 2010, 12:08:09 PM

Question:  Can you be an "evolutionist" and believe people are born "the gay"?  Seems like they'd of been extinct awhile ago.


Not sure what you mean by "evolution," because the term has evolved a great deal from it's early days as a hypothesis through later 20th century days as a viable to theory, to current day as an empirically proven fact.

Homosexuality is frequent in animals.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/earth/wildlife/7735232/Can-animals-be-gay.html

If anything, the lower natural rate of homosexual occurrence in species versus heterosexual is evidence of evolution at work.


Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: john "teach me how to" dougie on June 08, 2010, 12:31:34 PM


Question:  Can you be an "evolutionist" and believe people are born "the gay"?  Seems like they'd of been extinct awhile ago.



I have posed this question to all of my gay friends, and got the same answer from all of them. They all new from the first sexual feeling they had that they were "the gay", but all of them have also had hetero relationships. So I do believe you are born "the gay".
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Festus the Purple Swan on June 08, 2010, 12:43:34 PM
I think if the gays would agree to call their unions something other than marriage, they would get much further, much quicker. Even in a state as liberal as California, the majority of people believe the word "marriage" indicates a religious union between a man and a woman.


They also need to stop with the "hate" speech. Every time they don't get their way, it's because everyone who disagrees with  their agenda "hates" gays, which is a fallacy.
So it's basically semantics. Gotcha. 

Only to the GLBT crowd. They won't settle for anything less than marriage, even if a civil union is the same thing. On the other side, it is a religious belief. You figure out who is being uncompromising.
In most places a civil union NOT the same thing legally.  The entire legal system is based on words having meaning.  If A means the same thing as B (legally speaking) then why have two different words?  Its simply an attempt to create something which is like a marriage but lesser in legal value.  If you don't think gay people should enjoy the same legal rights (simply because of how they were born) as straight people then have a weak heart and mind. 

If it is called a "marriage" who does it hurt?  How does it make anyone else's marriage less meaningful?
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Festus the Purple Swan on June 08, 2010, 12:46:38 PM
The reason "the gays" aren't getting their way is because they're trying to force everyone into saying that being "the gay" is totally okay(gay guy voice).  If they'd just take the equal legal rights and call it "civil union" they'd have the same rights as "the straights" today. 

IMO, this isn't what "the gays" really want.  What they really want is the government to say that being "the gay" is normal and the same as being "the straight".  In a bassackwards way what "the gays" are trying to do is legislate that their "lifestyle" (for lack of a better word) is no different than anyone else's.  Obviously a lot of people have a problem with this as it is in complete contradiction to the majority of "the straights" religion, morals, and/or ability to stomach the thought of two dudes ass ramming each other.  What they're doing is dragging religion into the argument when they need it as far away as possible.

My take:  nobody likes being told what to do, and they certainly don't like being told what to believe.  Stop trying to force people to believe something they don't.  If equal rights is really what you want, take the equal rights.


Sidebar:  I've read, "only god can give you rights" a lot in these asinine political threads.  I was watching "America:  The Story of Us" on History and they read the declaration of independence and noticed that's basically what it says in the preamble.  I finally get it  :facepalm:, never understood how that always got dropped in these things.

Question:  Can you be an "evolutionist" and believe people are born "the gay"?  Seems like they'd of been extinct awhile ago.

Also, why do people drive on a parkway and park on a driveway?

Sincerely,

The Sweetest tasting Dick this side of the Miss'ippi
Being gay is 100% natural.  It IS ok to be gay.

Basically you don't think gay people should have the same rights as straight people because you find it icky?

Also, you don't understand evolution at all.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: john "teach me how to" dougie on June 08, 2010, 12:57:52 PM
I think if the gays would agree to call their unions something other than marriage, they would get much further, much quicker. Even in a state as liberal as California, the majority of people believe the word "marriage" indicates a religious union between a man and a woman.


They also need to stop with the "hate" speech. Every time they don't get their way, it's because everyone who disagrees with  their agenda "hates" gays, which is a fallacy.
So it's basically semantics. Gotcha. 

Only to the GLBT crowd. They won't settle for anything less than marriage, even if a civil union is the same thing. On the other side, it is a religious belief. You figure out who is being uncompromising.
In most places a civil union NOT the same thing legally.  The entire legal system is based on words having meaning.  If A means the same thing as B (legally speaking) then why have two different words?  Its simply an attempt to create something which is like a marriage but lesser in legal value.  If you don't think gay people should enjoy the same legal rights (simply because of how they were born) as straight people then have a weak heart and mind. 

If it is called a "marriage" who does it hurt?  How does it make anyone else's marriage less meaningful?

My argument is that civil unions could be the same legally if they were willing to compromise on the nomenclature.  If they would just say "we want civil unions that are equal to marriage", they would probably have them already. They are not going to change peoples religious beliefs about marriage being between a man and a woman.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Saulbadguy on June 08, 2010, 01:00:30 PM
I think if the gays would agree to call their unions something other than marriage, they would get much further, much quicker. Even in a state as liberal as California, the majority of people believe the word "marriage" indicates a religious union between a man and a woman.


They also need to stop with the "hate" speech. Every time they don't get their way, it's because everyone who disagrees with  their agenda "hates" gays, which is a fallacy.
So it's basically semantics. Gotcha. 

Only to the GLBT crowd. They won't settle for anything less than marriage, even if a civil union is the same thing. On the other side, it is a religious belief. You figure out who is being uncompromising.
In most places a civil union NOT the same thing legally.  The entire legal system is based on words having meaning.  If A means the same thing as B (legally speaking) then why have two different words?  Its simply an attempt to create something which is like a marriage but lesser in legal value.  If you don't think gay people should enjoy the same legal rights (simply because of how they were born) as straight people then have a weak heart and mind. 

If it is called a "marriage" who does it hurt?  How does it make anyone else's marriage less meaningful?

My argument is that civil unions could be the same legally if they were willing to compromise on the nomenclature.  If they would just say "we want civil unions that are equal to marriage", they would probably have them already. They are not going to change peoples religious beliefs about marriage being between a man and a woman.
Again, marriage isn't a religious entity.  You can get married at a courthouse.  I got married outside, not in a church, and did not have a religious ceremony.

Am I married, or just unionized?
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: SkinnyBenny on June 08, 2010, 01:01:55 PM
I think if the gays would agree to call their unions something other than marriage, they would get much further, much quicker. Even in a state as liberal as California, the majority of people believe the word "marriage" indicates a religious union between a man and a woman.


They also need to stop with the "hate" speech. Every time they don't get their way, it's because everyone who disagrees with  their agenda "hates" gays, which is a fallacy.
So it's basically semantics. Gotcha.  

Only to the GLBT crowd. They won't settle for anything less than marriage, even if a civil union is the same thing. On the other side, it is a religious belief. You figure out who is being uncompromising.
In most places a civil union NOT the same thing legally.  The entire legal system is based on words having meaning.  If A means the same thing as B (legally speaking) then why have two different words?  Its simply an attempt to create something which is like a marriage but lesser in legal value.  If you don't think gay people should enjoy the same legal rights (simply because of how they were born) as straight people then have a weak heart and mind.  

If it is called a "marriage" who does it hurt?  How does it make anyone else's marriage less meaningful?

My argument is that civil unions could be the same legally if they were willing to compromise on the nomenclature.  If they would just say "we want civil unions that are equal to marriage", they would probably have them already. They are not going to change peoples religious beliefs about marriage being between a man and a woman.

They shouldn't have to compromise.  First of all, many religions believe it is okay to be gay.  Do those religions have less validity?  Secondly, if the nomenclature "marriage" is used in completely non-religious courthouse ceremonies, that makes it not necessarily a religious term.

Sorry, bro!   :pbj:
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Goldbrick on June 08, 2010, 01:13:51 PM
The nature versus nurture question of homosexuality is still very much up in the air.

Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: SkinnyBenny on June 08, 2010, 02:04:39 PM
Yes, because straight parents only raise straight children.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: john "teach me how to" dougie on June 08, 2010, 02:13:02 PM
I think if the gays would agree to call their unions something other than marriage, they would get much further, much quicker. Even in a state as liberal as California, the majority of people believe the word "marriage" indicates a religious union between a man and a woman.


They also need to stop with the "hate" speech. Every time they don't get their way, it's because everyone who disagrees with  their agenda "hates" gays, which is a fallacy.
So it's basically semantics. Gotcha. 

Only to the GLBT crowd. They won't settle for anything less than marriage, even if a civil union is the same thing. On the other side, it is a religious belief. You figure out who is being uncompromising.
In most places a civil union NOT the same thing legally.  The entire legal system is based on words having meaning.  If A means the same thing as B (legally speaking) then why have two different words?  Its simply an attempt to create something which is like a marriage but lesser in legal value.  If you don't think gay people should enjoy the same legal rights (simply because of how they were born) as straight people then have a weak heart and mind. 

If it is called a "marriage" who does it hurt?  How does it make anyone else's marriage less meaningful?

My argument is that civil unions could be the same legally if they were willing to compromise on the nomenclature.  If they would just say "we want civil unions that are equal to marriage", they would probably have them already. They are not going to change peoples religious beliefs about marriage being between a man and a woman.
Again, marriage isn't a religious entity.  You can get married at a courthouse.  I got married outside, not in a church, and did not have a religious ceremony.

Am I married, or just unionized?

Unless you have a husband, you are married.

Maybe marriage is no longer strictly a religious ceremony and has been bastardized by the government, but most people still see it that way.  

All I am saying is if they want to spend the rest of their lives fighting over the word marriage, go ahead. If they just want the same rights as a marriage, it could probably be done, or already been done, in just a few years.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: john "teach me how to" dougie on June 08, 2010, 02:14:27 PM
The nature versus nurture question of homosexuality is still very much up in the air.



I don't think so. How do you explain twins, one flaming and one not?
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Saulbadguy on June 08, 2010, 02:19:35 PM
I think if the gays would agree to call their unions something other than marriage, they would get much further, much quicker. Even in a state as liberal as California, the majority of people believe the word "marriage" indicates a religious union between a man and a woman.


They also need to stop with the "hate" speech. Every time they don't get their way, it's because everyone who disagrees with  their agenda "hates" gays, which is a fallacy.
So it's basically semantics. Gotcha. 

Only to the GLBT crowd. They won't settle for anything less than marriage, even if a civil union is the same thing. On the other side, it is a religious belief. You figure out who is being uncompromising.
In most places a civil union NOT the same thing legally.  The entire legal system is based on words having meaning.  If A means the same thing as B (legally speaking) then why have two different words?  Its simply an attempt to create something which is like a marriage but lesser in legal value.  If you don't think gay people should enjoy the same legal rights (simply because of how they were born) as straight people then have a weak heart and mind. 

If it is called a "marriage" who does it hurt?  How does it make anyone else's marriage less meaningful?

My argument is that civil unions could be the same legally if they were willing to compromise on the nomenclature.  If they would just say "we want civil unions that are equal to marriage", they would probably have them already. They are not going to change peoples religious beliefs about marriage being between a man and a woman.
Again, marriage isn't a religious entity.  You can get married at a courthouse.  I got married outside, not in a church, and did not have a religious ceremony.

Am I married, or just unionized?

Unless you have a husband, you are married.

Maybe marriage is no longer strictly a religious ceremony and has been bastardized by the government, but most people still see it that way. 

All I am saying is if they want to spend the rest of their lives fighting over the word marriage, go ahead. If they just want the same rights as a marriage, it could probably be done, or already been done, in just a few years.
It's been bastardized by the government, huh?  Seeing that nearly 40-50% of all of the end in divorce, I don't see how that is the governments fault, and I don't see that as "most people seeing it that way". 

I guess they are wrong for wanting to be treated as equals, huh?
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: john "teach me how to" dougie on June 08, 2010, 02:57:22 PM
I think if the gays would agree to call their unions something other than marriage, they would get much further, much quicker. Even in a state as liberal as California, the majority of people believe the word "marriage" indicates a religious union between a man and a woman.


They also need to stop with the "hate" speech. Every time they don't get their way, it's because everyone who disagrees with  their agenda "hates" gays, which is a fallacy.
So it's basically semantics. Gotcha. 

Only to the GLBT crowd. They won't settle for anything less than marriage, even if a civil union is the same thing. On the other side, it is a religious belief. You figure out who is being uncompromising.
In most places a civil union NOT the same thing legally.  The entire legal system is based on words having meaning.  If A means the same thing as B (legally speaking) then why have two different words?  Its simply an attempt to create something which is like a marriage but lesser in legal value.  If you don't think gay people should enjoy the same legal rights (simply because of how they were born) as straight people then have a weak heart and mind. 

If it is called a "marriage" who does it hurt?  How does it make anyone else's marriage less meaningful?

My argument is that civil unions could be the same legally if they were willing to compromise on the nomenclature.  If they would just say "we want civil unions that are equal to marriage", they would probably have them already. They are not going to change peoples religious beliefs about marriage being between a man and a woman.
Again, marriage isn't a religious entity.  You can get married at a courthouse.  I got married outside, not in a church, and did not have a religious ceremony.

Am I married, or just unionized?

Unless you have a husband, you are married.

Maybe marriage is no longer strictly a religious ceremony and has been bastardized by the government, but most people still see it that way. 

All I am saying is if they want to spend the rest of their lives fighting over the word marriage, go ahead. If they just want the same rights as a marriage, it could probably be done, or already been done, in just a few years.
It's been bastardized by the government, huh?  Seeing that nearly 40-50% of all of the end in divorce, I don't see how that is the governments fault, and I don't see that as "most people seeing it that way". 

I guess they are wrong for wanting to be treated as equals, huh?

I guess I should point out that I am on their side. I really don't care whether they call it marriage or not, but if they ever want the same rights, they would be better off compromising on the word "marriage", then when they have the rights, fight for the name.

Nearly 80% of Americans consider themselves Christians, and I assume a large majority of them believe marriage is between a man and a woman, so I am guessing that is a very large number. Maybe not most, but the majority. Why waste time fighting them when the desired result is easily within reach.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Saulbadguy on June 08, 2010, 03:03:00 PM
I think if the gays would agree to call their unions something other than marriage, they would get much further, much quicker. Even in a state as liberal as California, the majority of people believe the word "marriage" indicates a religious union between a man and a woman.


They also need to stop with the "hate" speech. Every time they don't get their way, it's because everyone who disagrees with  their agenda "hates" gays, which is a fallacy.
So it's basically semantics. Gotcha. 

Only to the GLBT crowd. They won't settle for anything less than marriage, even if a civil union is the same thing. On the other side, it is a religious belief. You figure out who is being uncompromising.
In most places a civil union NOT the same thing legally.  The entire legal system is based on words having meaning.  If A means the same thing as B (legally speaking) then why have two different words?  Its simply an attempt to create something which is like a marriage but lesser in legal value.  If you don't think gay people should enjoy the same legal rights (simply because of how they were born) as straight people then have a weak heart and mind. 

If it is called a "marriage" who does it hurt?  How does it make anyone else's marriage less meaningful?

My argument is that civil unions could be the same legally if they were willing to compromise on the nomenclature.  If they would just say "we want civil unions that are equal to marriage", they would probably have them already. They are not going to change peoples religious beliefs about marriage being between a man and a woman.
Again, marriage isn't a religious entity.  You can get married at a courthouse.  I got married outside, not in a church, and did not have a religious ceremony.

Am I married, or just unionized?

Unless you have a husband, you are married.

Maybe marriage is no longer strictly a religious ceremony and has been bastardized by the government, but most people still see it that way. 

All I am saying is if they want to spend the rest of their lives fighting over the word marriage, go ahead. If they just want the same rights as a marriage, it could probably be done, or already been done, in just a few years.
It's been bastardized by the government, huh?  Seeing that nearly 40-50% of all of the end in divorce, I don't see how that is the governments fault, and I don't see that as "most people seeing it that way". 

I guess they are wrong for wanting to be treated as equals, huh?

I guess I should point out that I am on their side. I really don't care whether they call it marriage or not, but if they ever want the same rights, they would be better off compromising on the word "marriage", then when they have the rights, fight for the name.

Nearly 80% of Americans consider themselves Christians, and I assume a large majority of them believe marriage is between a man and a woman, so I am guessing that is a very large number. Maybe not most, but the majority. Why waste time fighting them when the desired result is easily within reach.
Because that is not being treated equally.  It's being treated equally, "but...."
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: john "teach me how to" dougie on June 08, 2010, 03:48:52 PM
I think if the gays would agree to call their unions something other than marriage, they would get much further, much quicker. Even in a state as liberal as California, the majority of people believe the word "marriage" indicates a religious union between a man and a woman.


They also need to stop with the "hate" speech. Every time they don't get their way, it's because everyone who disagrees with  their agenda "hates" gays, which is a fallacy.
So it's basically semantics. Gotcha. 

Only to the GLBT crowd. They won't settle for anything less than marriage, even if a civil union is the same thing. On the other side, it is a religious belief. You figure out who is being uncompromising.
In most places a civil union NOT the same thing legally.  The entire legal system is based on words having meaning.  If A means the same thing as B (legally speaking) then why have two different words?  Its simply an attempt to create something which is like a marriage but lesser in legal value.  If you don't think gay people should enjoy the same legal rights (simply because of how they were born) as straight people then have a weak heart and mind. 

If it is called a "marriage" who does it hurt?  How does it make anyone else's marriage less meaningful?

My argument is that civil unions could be the same legally if they were willing to compromise on the nomenclature.  If they would just say "we want civil unions that are equal to marriage", they would probably have them already. They are not going to change peoples religious beliefs about marriage being between a man and a woman.
Again, marriage isn't a religious entity.  You can get married at a courthouse.  I got married outside, not in a church, and did not have a religious ceremony.

Am I married, or just unionized?

Unless you have a husband, you are married.

Maybe marriage is no longer strictly a religious ceremony and has been bastardized by the government, but most people still see it that way. 

All I am saying is if they want to spend the rest of their lives fighting over the word marriage, go ahead. If they just want the same rights as a marriage, it could probably be done, or already been done, in just a few years.
It's been bastardized by the government, huh?  Seeing that nearly 40-50% of all of the end in divorce, I don't see how that is the governments fault, and I don't see that as "most people seeing it that way". 

I guess they are wrong for wanting to be treated as equals, huh?

I guess I should point out that I am on their side. I really don't care whether they call it marriage or not, but if they ever want the same rights, they would be better off compromising on the word "marriage", then when they have the rights, fight for the name.

Nearly 80% of Americans consider themselves Christians, and I assume a large majority of them believe marriage is between a man and a woman, so I am guessing that is a very large number. Maybe not most, but the majority. Why waste time fighting them when the desired result is easily within reach.
Because that is not being treated equally.  It's being treated equally, "but...."

I guess it is all about choosing your battle and the desired outcome.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Sugar Dick on June 08, 2010, 05:01:53 PM


Sidebar:  I've read, "only god can give you rights" a lot in these asinine political threads.  I was watching "America:  The Story of Us" on History and they read the declaration of independence and noticed that's basically what it says in the preamble.  I finally get it  :facepalm:, never understood how that always got dropped in these things.



How old are you?  Pretty sad if you didn't know this and you are older than 12.

Didn't get the context of its use in these Fake Sugar Dick (WARNING, NOT THE REAL SUGAR DICK!) threads, knew about the preamble for a long time, the connection finally clicked when watching the show.  Sorry to disappoint you.   :blank:
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Sugar Dick on June 08, 2010, 05:07:46 PM
The reason "the gays" aren't getting their way is because they're trying to force everyone into saying that being "the gay" is totally okay(gay guy voice).  If they'd just take the equal legal rights and call it "civil union" they'd have the same rights as "the straights" today. 

IMO, this isn't what "the gays" really want.  What they really want is the government to say that being "the gay" is normal and the same as being "the straight".  In a bassackwards way what "the gays" are trying to do is legislate that their "lifestyle" (for lack of a better word) is no different than anyone else's.  Obviously a lot of people have a problem with this as it is in complete contradiction to the majority of "the straights" religion, morals, and/or ability to stomach the thought of two dudes ass ramming each other.  What they're doing is dragging religion into the argument when they need it as far away as possible.

My take:  nobody likes being told what to do, and they certainly don't like being told what to believe.  Stop trying to force people to believe something they don't.  If equal rights is really what you want, take the equal rights.


Sidebar:  I've read, "only god can give you rights" a lot in these asinine political threads.  I was watching "America:  The Story of Us" on History and they read the declaration of independence and noticed that's basically what it says in the preamble.  I finally get it  :facepalm:, never understood how that always got dropped in these things.

Question:  Can you be an "evolutionist" and believe people are born "the gay"?  Seems like they'd of been extinct awhile ago.

Also, why do people drive on a parkway and park on a driveway?

Sincerely,

The Sweetest tasting Dick this side of the Miss'ippi
Being gay is 100% natural.  It IS ok to be gay.

Basically you don't think gay people should have the same rights as straight people because you find it icky?

Also, you don't understand evolution at all.

I'm trying to explain to you morons what other people think and how I think "the gays" can get their way.  This isn't what I actually believe or how I feel on the issue.

Of course everyone on this board is either too f*cking stupid to understand that, or flat out can't read.

Basically, I'm way smarter than everyone else here.   :cool:

P.S.
Gay guys are icky, hot lesbos are cool, ugly lesbos icky, bisexual is just downright degenerate (seriously, make up your f*cking mind)
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: 1/64th on June 09, 2010, 12:06:12 PM
Yes, because straight parents only raise straight children.

What are you thoughts of the higher rate of being sexually abused among "the gays" as compared to "the straights"?   Any correlation there?
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: 1/64th on June 09, 2010, 12:10:09 PM
The nature versus nurture question of homosexuality is still very much up in the air.



I don't think so. How do you explain twins, one flaming and one not?

You are clearly very simple minded.  1. Twins are not exact copies of each other.  2. They live separate lives and have separate experiences.  That was a horrible attempt at proving people are born gay.  Please try again.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: SkinnyBenny on June 09, 2010, 01:05:23 PM
What are you thoughts of the higher rate of being sexually abused among "the gays" as compared to "the straights"?   Any correlation there?

Official study stats (that don't come from some blog), please.

You are clearly very simple minded.  1. Twins are not exact copies of each other.  2. They live separate lives and have separate experiences.  That was a horrible attempt at proving people are born gay.  Please try again.

Except that it wasn't a horrible attempt.  Twins are raised, i.e. nurtured, by the same parents in nearly every case.  If people turn out to be gay because of nurture, as I assume you're claiming, then it would stand to reason that both twins would be either gay or straight, not mixed and matched.  You can claim they're separate and have separate existences, which would technically be true, but any nurturing factor important enough to sway someone's sexuality one way or another is likely foisted on both twins.  Try again plz, tia. 
 :bwpopcorn: 
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: KSU187 on June 09, 2010, 01:08:58 PM
Also in regards to the name of the thread regarding the morality of "gayness," the argument "it happens in nature" is worthless.

Since when does nature dictate morality... Is it okay to eat my children if they have birth defects like in nature?  It happens in NATURE!!! ITS NATURAL THEREFORE ITS OKAY!!!

Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: OK_Cat on June 09, 2010, 01:11:50 PM
Also in regards to the name of the thread regarding the morality of "gayness," the argument "it happens in nature" is worthless.

Since when does nature dictate morality... Is it okay to eat my children if they have birth defects like in nature?  It happens in NATURE!!! ITS NATURAL THEREFORE ITS OKAY!!!



Why would your god create these things if they weren't ok?  seems like he screwed the pooch on that one.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: 1/64th on June 09, 2010, 01:57:34 PM
What are you thoughts of the higher rate of being sexually abused among "the gays" as compared to "the straights"?   Any correlation there?

Official study stats (that don't come from some blog), please.

You are clearly very simple minded.  1. Twins are not exact copies of each other.  2. They live separate lives and have separate experiences.  That was a horrible attempt at proving people are born gay.  Please try again.

Except that it wasn't a horrible attempt.  Twins are raised, i.e. nurtured, by the same parents in nearly every case.  If people turn out to be gay because of nurture, as I assume you're claiming, then it would stand to reason that both twins would be either gay or straight, not mixed and matched.  You can claim they're separate and have separate existences, which would technically be true, but any nurturing factor important enough to sway someone's sexuality one way or another is likely foisted on both twins.  Try again plz, tia. 
 :bwpopcorn: 

Almost every gay person has a sibling who is not gay...and this proves nothing.  And when I'm bored enough I'll find the study and post it.  But I'm not that bored right now. 

Now explain this: in nature the main goal of every species is to reproduce.  If "gayness" is hereditary and we have been evolving for millions of years, don't you think "gayness" would have been gone a long time ago?
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Rage Against the McKee on June 09, 2010, 02:00:19 PM
What are you thoughts of the higher rate of being sexually abused among "the gays" as compared to "the straights"?   Any correlation there?

Official study stats (that don't come from some blog), please.

You are clearly very simple minded.  1. Twins are not exact copies of each other.  2. They live separate lives and have separate experiences.  That was a horrible attempt at proving people are born gay.  Please try again.

Except that it wasn't a horrible attempt.  Twins are raised, i.e. nurtured, by the same parents in nearly every case.  If people turn out to be gay because of nurture, as I assume you're claiming, then it would stand to reason that both twins would be either gay or straight, not mixed and matched.  You can claim they're separate and have separate existences, which would technically be true, but any nurturing factor important enough to sway someone's sexuality one way or another is likely foisted on both twins.  Try again plz, tia. 
 :bwpopcorn: 

Almost every gay person has a sibling who is not gay...and this proves nothing.  And when I'm bored enough I'll find the study and post it.  But I'm not that bored right now. 

Now explain this: in nature the main goal of every species is to reproduce.  If "gayness" is hereditary and we have been evolving for millions of years, don't you think "gayness" would have been gone a long time ago?

Not if you can carry the gene but not be gay yourself. Sometimes two people who are not ginger can have a ginger kid.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: 1/64th on June 09, 2010, 02:01:57 PM
What are you thoughts of the higher rate of being sexually abused among "the gays" as compared to "the straights"?   Any correlation there?

Official study stats (that don't come from some blog), please.

You are clearly very simple minded.  1. Twins are not exact copies of each other.  2. They live separate lives and have separate experiences.  That was a horrible attempt at proving people are born gay.  Please try again.

Except that it wasn't a horrible attempt.  Twins are raised, i.e. nurtured, by the same parents in nearly every case.  If people turn out to be gay because of nurture, as I assume you're claiming, then it would stand to reason that both twins would be either gay or straight, not mixed and matched.  You can claim they're separate and have separate existences, which would technically be true, but any nurturing factor important enough to sway someone's sexuality one way or another is likely foisted on both twins.  Try again plz, tia. 
 :bwpopcorn: 

Almost every gay person has a sibling who is not gay...and this proves nothing.  And when I'm bored enough I'll find the study and post it.  But I'm not that bored right now. 

Now explain this: in nature the main goal of every species is to reproduce.  If "gayness" is hereditary and we have been evolving for millions of years, don't you think "gayness" would have been gone a long time ago?

Not if you can carry the gene but not be gay yourself. Sometimes two people who are not ginger can have a ginger kid.

Very unlikely given that the gene would have to stay recessive for a very long time and is just now becoming dominant.  Scientifically impossible actually. 
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: 1/64th on June 09, 2010, 02:06:44 PM
There are several studies but here's the first one I found.  I know, it's old but still holds true.

Watkins, B. & Bentovim, A. (1992). The sexual abuse of male children and adolescents: a review of current research. Journal of Clinical Psychology & Psychiatry, 33(10), 197-248.


"Sexually abused boys later have greater sexual identity confusion and increased likelihood of homosexuality"
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Paul Moscow on June 09, 2010, 02:23:48 PM
There are several studies but here's the first one I found.  I know, it's old but still holds true.

Watkins, B. & Bentovim, A. (1992). The sexual abuse of male children and adolescents: a review of current research. Journal of Clinical Psychology & Psychiatry, 33(10), 197-248.


"Sexually abused boys later have greater sexual identity confusion and increased likelihood of homosexuality"


The shazbot! dude, no one will disagree with you on that. You seem to suggest that something beyond that, like if I spend all my time dragging (hehe) my kid to musicals and taking him shopping that he's going to become "the queers".

The studies that you should take time to look at were done by Bailey and Pillard. Which studied the gayness between Fraternal (two eggs fertilized hot shot) and Identical (one egg, split) as well as...and this is key, non-related adopted brothers.

They found that 52%, FIFTY TWO PERCENT of identical twins were both self-identified homosexuals (a number verified in another studies of identical twins separated at birth)

Fraternal twins (essentially just brother and brother) 22% chance.

Non-related adopted brothers: 5% chance.

The closer genetically linked a pair is, the more likely they both exhibit gay or straight tendencies.


Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: SkinnyBenny on June 09, 2010, 02:32:38 PM
There are several studies but here's the first one I found.  I know, it's old but still holds true.

Watkins, B. & Bentovim, A. (1992). The sexual abuse of male children and adolescents: a review of current research. Journal of Clinical Psychology & Psychiatry, 33(10), 197-248.


"Sexually abused boys later have greater sexual identity confusion and increased likelihood of homosexuality"


The shazbot! dude, no one will disagree with you on that. You seem to suggest that something beyond that, like if I spend all my time dragging (hehe) my kid to musicals and taking him shopping that he's going to become "the queers".

The studies that you should take time to look at were done by Bailey and Pillard. Which studied the gayness between Fraternal (two eggs fertilized hot shot) and Identical (one egg, split) as well as...and this is key, non-related adopted brothers.

They found that 52%, FIFTY TWO PERCENT of identical twins were both self-identified homosexuals (a number verified in another studies of identical twins separated at birth)

Fraternal twins (essentially just brother and brother) 22% chance.

Non-related adopted brothers: 5% chance.

The closer genetically linked a pair is, the more likely they both exhibit gay or straight tendencies.




:surprised: Pwnag3!
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: 1/64th on June 09, 2010, 04:01:55 PM
There are several studies but here's the first one I found.  I know, it's old but still holds true.

Watkins, B. & Bentovim, A. (1992). The sexual abuse of male children and adolescents: a review of current research. Journal of Clinical Psychology & Psychiatry, 33(10), 197-248.


"Sexually abused boys later have greater sexual identity confusion and increased likelihood of homosexuality"


The shazbot! dude, no one will disagree with you on that. You seem to suggest that something beyond that, like if I spend all my time dragging (hehe) my kid to musicals and taking him shopping that he's going to become "the queers".

The studies that you should take time to look at were done by Bailey and Pillard. Which studied the gayness between Fraternal (two eggs fertilized hot shot) and Identical (one egg, split) as well as...and this is key, non-related adopted brothers.

They found that 52%, FIFTY TWO PERCENT of identical twins were both self-identified homosexuals (a number verified in another studies of identical twins separated at birth)

Fraternal twins (essentially just brother and brother) 22% chance.

Non-related adopted brothers: 5% chance.

The closer genetically linked a pair is, the more likely they both exhibit gay or straight tendencies.




Please note where I said anything about musicals or other "gay things."  All I said was that abused children end up being gay more than non-abused children.  But thanks for putting words in my mouth.  I'll tell you exactly what I believe.  Ready?  Some people are more predisposed to being gay than others.  This would explain why fraternal twins are less likely to both be gay as compared to identical twins.  Look up the same study in regards to alcoholism or profession.  Same results.  So are these people also born accountants or born alcoholics?  Of course not.  So there you have it, my belief about "the gays" wrapped up.  Now, I'm ready for someone to tell me how much I hate gay people and how gayist I am.  Ready, set, go!! :comehere:
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: john "teach me how to" dougie on June 09, 2010, 04:34:32 PM
There are several studies but here's the first one I found.  I know, it's old but still holds true.

Watkins, B. & Bentovim, A. (1992). The sexual abuse of male children and adolescents: a review of current research. Journal of Clinical Psychology & Psychiatry, 33(10), 197-248.


"Sexually abused boys later have greater sexual identity confusion and increased likelihood of homosexuality"


The shazbot! dude, no one will disagree with you on that. You seem to suggest that something beyond that, like if I spend all my time dragging (hehe) my kid to musicals and taking him shopping that he's going to become "the queers".

The studies that you should take time to look at were done by Bailey and Pillard. Which studied the gayness between Fraternal (two eggs fertilized hot shot) and Identical (one egg, split) as well as...and this is key, non-related adopted brothers.

They found that 52%, FIFTY TWO PERCENT of identical twins were both self-identified homosexuals (a number verified in another studies of identical twins separated at birth)

Fraternal twins (essentially just brother and brother) 22% chance.

Non-related adopted brothers: 5% chance.

The closer genetically linked a pair is, the more likely they both exhibit gay or straight tendencies.




Please note where I said anything about musicals or other "gay things."  All I said was that abused children end up being gay more than non-abused children.  But thanks for putting words in my mouth.  I'll tell you exactly what I believe.  Ready?  Some people are more predisposed to being gay than others.  This would explain why fraternal twins are less likely to both be gay as compared to identical twins.  Look up the same study in regards to alcoholism or profession.  Same results.  So are these people also born accountants or born alcoholics?  Of course not.  So there you have it, my belief about "the gays" wrapped up.  Now, I'm ready for someone to tell me how much I hate gay people and how gayist I am.  Ready, set, go!! :comehere:

All of my gay friends come from good, loving, happy families. :dunno:
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Sugar Dick on June 09, 2010, 08:06:59 PM
This crappy thread has taken an ridiculous turn of a bunch of partisan d-bags puking partisan talking points on a page.  Apparently some people think that if someone is born a certain way it makes their behavior moral.  Some of those people and some others think that because animals have been observed engaging in homosexual behavior that makes being a homosexual human moral.

Let me start by saying, how someone is born and what occurs in the animal kingdom have absolutely nothing to do with whether a certain type of behavior is moral.

First of all, people are born with physical and mental defects.  If someone is born criminally insane that doesn't make rape, murder, and thievery moral for those people simply because that's how they're born.  If someone is born schizophrenic (not sure if you can be, but for example) we don't just let them going around acting schizo and saying it's morally acceptable, we give them lithium or something.

Second of all, if I was "the gay" I'm not sure I wouldn't be a little offended with animal comparison.  Animals eat their own hullabaloo, don't wear pants, get run over on the highway constantly, live in the weeds, and all in all don't possess morals.  Whatever it is some confused, curious, or otherwise intellectually inferior mammal does in nature has absolutely no bearing on whether or not being homosexual is morally acceptable.

Like I said before, I think the problem is "the gays" real aim isn't equal rights, otherwise they'd take a "civil union" with identical rights.  They want the government to tell religion (I'm lumping people that aren't religious but think its immoral to be "the gays" in here to save words) that being homosexual is a-okay and the same as being straight.  Religious people don't like that because it goes against their religion.  Religious groups currently have more power than "the gays". 

Now there are lots of things sexually related that the government allows that isn't moral by the large majority of the populatoin, for example abortion for the sake of not wanting a kid right now, a frat dudes propensity to sleep with as many women as possible, cheating on your wife, etc.  If government allows gays to get married (and call it marriage) the religious people are just going to have to deal with it (like they do abortion).

Perhaps the real questions should be:  How are morals established by society and what are they?  Does a homosexual relationship fit within those established morals?

While you ponder these thoughts and no doubt rev up your keyboards with some asinine and inapplicable rhetoric your 10th grade civics teacher threw at, ya'll can suck my sweet sugar dick!
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Paul Moscow on June 09, 2010, 08:34:22 PM
This crappy thread has taken an ridiculous turn of a bunch of partisan d-bags puking partisan talking points on a page.  Apparently some people think that if someone is born a certain way it makes their behavior moral.  Some of those people and some others think that because animals have been observed engaging in homosexual behavior that makes being a homosexual human moral.

Let me start by saying, how someone is born and what occurs in the animal kingdom have absolutely nothing to do with whether a certain type of behavior is moral.

First of all, people are born with physical and mental defects.  If someone is born criminally insane that doesn't make rape, murder, and thievery moral for those people simply because that's how they're born.  If someone is born schizophrenic (not sure if you can be, but for example) we don't just let them going around acting schizo and saying it's morally acceptable, we give them lithium or something.

Second of all, if I was "the gay" I'm not sure I wouldn't be a little offended with animal comparison.  Animals eat their own hullabaloo, don't wear pants, get run over on the highway constantly, live in the weeds, and all in all don't possess morals.  Whatever it is some confused, curious, or otherwise intellectually inferior mammal does in nature has absolutely no bearing on whether or not being homosexual is morally acceptable.

Like I said before, I think the problem is "the gays" real aim isn't equal rights, otherwise they'd take a "civil union" with identical rights.  They want the government to tell religion (I'm lumping people that aren't religious but think its immoral to be "the gays" in here to save words) that being homosexual is a-okay and the same as being straight.  Religious people don't like that because it goes against their religion.  Religious groups currently have more power than "the gays". 

Now there are lots of things sexually related that the government allows that isn't moral by the large majority of the populatoin, for example abortion for the sake of not wanting a kid right now, a frat dudes propensity to sleep with as many women as possible, cheating on your wife, etc.  If government allows gays to get married (and call it marriage) the religious people are just going to have to deal with it (like they do abortion).

Perhaps the real questions should be:  How are morals established by society and what are they?  Does a homosexual relationship fit within those established morals?

While you ponder these thoughts and no doubt rev up your keyboards with some asinine and inapplicable rhetoric your 10th grade civics teacher threw at, ya'll can suck my sweet sugar dick!

In the immoral examples you cited you point to things in which there is a victim. In abortion the victim is the unborn child, a frat dude the victim is the consenting (in some cases inebriated) minor, in cheating the spouse is the victim.

Who is the victim in a homosexual relationship?


Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: SkinnyBenny on June 09, 2010, 08:48:30 PM

Who is the victim in a homosexual relationship?



 :runaway: :runaway: :runaway: THE INSTITUTION OF MARRIAGE!!!   :runaway: :runaway: :runaway:
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Dirty Sanchez on June 09, 2010, 08:51:18 PM

Who is the victim in a homosexual relationship?




skinnybenny's sphincter
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: SkinnyBenny on June 09, 2010, 08:52:21 PM

Who is the victim in a homosexual relationship?




skinnybenny's sphincter

Mine was better.   :cool:
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: TBL on June 09, 2010, 08:56:44 PM
There are several studies but here's the first one I found.  I know, it's old but still holds true.

Watkins, B. & Bentovim, A. (1992). The sexual abuse of male children and adolescents: a review of current research. Journal of Clinical Psychology & Psychiatry, 33(10), 197-248.


"Sexually abused boys later have greater sexual identity confusion and increased likelihood of homosexuality"


The shazbot! dude, no one will disagree with you on that. You seem to suggest that something beyond that, like if I spend all my time dragging (hehe) my kid to musicals and taking him shopping that he's going to become "the queers".

The studies that you should take time to look at were done by Bailey and Pillard. Which studied the gayness between Fraternal (two eggs fertilized hot shot) and Identical (one egg, split) as well as...and this is key, non-related adopted brothers.

They found that 52%, FIFTY TWO PERCENT of identical twins were both self-identified homosexuals (a number verified in another studies of identical twins separated at birth)

Fraternal twins (essentially just brother and brother) 22% chance.

Non-related adopted brothers: 5% chance.

The closer genetically linked a pair is, the more likely they both exhibit gay or straight tendencies.




Please note where I said anything about musicals or other "gay things."  All I said was that abused children end up being gay more than non-abused children.  But thanks for putting words in my mouth.  I'll tell you exactly what I believe.  Ready?  Some people are more predisposed to being gay than others.  This would explain why fraternal twins are less likely to both be gay as compared to identical twins.  Look up the same study in regards to alcoholism or profession.  Same results.  So are these people also born accountants or born alcoholics?  Of course not.  So there you have it, my belief about "the gays" wrapped up.  Now, I'm ready for someone to tell me how much I hate gay people and how gayist I am.  Ready, set, go!! :comehere:

All of my gay friends come from good, loving, happy families. :dunno:

You have lot's of (I'm too stupid to find a better word than gay) friends? That says something in and of itself.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Festus the Purple Swan on June 09, 2010, 08:59:51 PM
Whats wrong with having gay friends?  :frown:
Being gay is not a moral failing.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Dirty Sanchez on June 09, 2010, 09:11:44 PM

Who is the victim in a homosexual relationship?




skinnybenny's sphincter

Mine was better.   :cool:

Mine was true   :barf:
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Cire on June 09, 2010, 09:15:28 PM
I think most of teh gays would gladly accept civil unions.  I don't think it's marriage or bust.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Dirty Sanchez on June 09, 2010, 09:20:38 PM
I think most of teh gays would gladly accept civil unions.  I don't think it's marriage or bust.

The problem is, like most if not all groups, the majority are defined by the kooks.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Cire on June 09, 2010, 09:25:47 PM
It's kooky to want to be married?
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: john "teach me how to" dougie on June 09, 2010, 09:34:19 PM
There are several studies but here's the first one I found.  I know, it's old but still holds true.

Watkins, B. & Bentovim, A. (1992). The sexual abuse of male children and adolescents: a review of current research. Journal of Clinical Psychology & Psychiatry, 33(10), 197-248.


"Sexually abused boys later have greater sexual identity confusion and increased likelihood of homosexuality"


The shazbot! dude, no one will disagree with you on that. You seem to suggest that something beyond that, like if I spend all my time dragging (hehe) my kid to musicals and taking him shopping that he's going to become "the queers".

The studies that you should take time to look at were done by Bailey and Pillard. Which studied the gayness between Fraternal (two eggs fertilized hot shot) and Identical (one egg, split) as well as...and this is key, non-related adopted brothers.

They found that 52%, FIFTY TWO PERCENT of identical twins were both self-identified homosexuals (a number verified in another studies of identical twins separated at birth)

Fraternal twins (essentially just brother and brother) 22% chance.

Non-related adopted brothers: 5% chance.

The closer genetically linked a pair is, the more likely they both exhibit gay or straight tendencies.




Please note where I said anything about musicals or other "gay things."  All I said was that abused children end up being gay more than non-abused children.  But thanks for putting words in my mouth.  I'll tell you exactly what I believe.  Ready?  Some people are more predisposed to being gay than others.  This would explain why fraternal twins are less likely to both be gay as compared to identical twins.  Look up the same study in regards to alcoholism or profession.  Same results.  So are these people also born accountants or born alcoholics?  Of course not.  So there you have it, my belief about "the gays" wrapped up.  Now, I'm ready for someone to tell me how much I hate gay people and how gayist I am.  Ready, set, go!! :comehere:

All of my gay friends come from good, loving, happy families. :dunno:

You have lot's of (I'm too stupid to find a better word than gay) friends? That says something in and of itself.

4 that I know of, probably more.  Where I live, you can't throw a Liza Minnelli CD without hitting one.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Sugar Dick on June 09, 2010, 10:16:44 PM
There are several studies but here's the first one I found.  I know, it's old but still holds true.

Watkins, B. & Bentovim, A. (1992). The sexual abuse of male children and adolescents: a review of current research. Journal of Clinical Psychology & Psychiatry, 33(10), 197-248.


"Sexually abused boys later have greater sexual identity confusion and increased likelihood of homosexuality"


The shazbot! dude, no one will disagree with you on that. You seem to suggest that something beyond that, like if I spend all my time dragging (hehe) my kid to musicals and taking him shopping that he's going to become "the queers".

The studies that you should take time to look at were done by Bailey and Pillard. Which studied the gayness between Fraternal (two eggs fertilized hot shot) and Identical (one egg, split) as well as...and this is key, non-related adopted brothers.

They found that 52%, FIFTY TWO PERCENT of identical twins were both self-identified homosexuals (a number verified in another studies of identical twins separated at birth)

Fraternal twins (essentially just brother and brother) 22% chance.

Non-related adopted brothers: 5% chance.

The closer genetically linked a pair is, the more likely they both exhibit gay or straight tendencies.




Please note where I said anything about musicals or other "gay things."  All I said was that abused children end up being gay more than non-abused children.  But thanks for putting words in my mouth.  I'll tell you exactly what I believe.  Ready?  Some people are more predisposed to being gay than others.  This would explain why fraternal twins are less likely to both be gay as compared to identical twins.  Look up the same study in regards to alcoholism or profession.  Same results.  So are these people also born accountants or born alcoholics?  Of course not.  So there you have it, my belief about "the gays" wrapped up.  Now, I'm ready for someone to tell me how much I hate gay people and how gayist I am.  Ready, set, go!! :comehere:

All of my gay friends come from good, loving, happy families. :dunno:

You have lot's of (I'm too stupid to find a better word than gay) friends? That says something in and of itself.

4 that I know of, probably more.  Where I live, you can't throw a Liza Minnelli CD without hitting one.

Lawrence, KS?
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: john "teach me how to" dougie on June 09, 2010, 11:45:17 PM
There are several studies but here's the first one I found.  I know, it's old but still holds true.

Watkins, B. & Bentovim, A. (1992). The sexual abuse of male children and adolescents: a review of current research. Journal of Clinical Psychology & Psychiatry, 33(10), 197-248.


"Sexually abused boys later have greater sexual identity confusion and increased likelihood of homosexuality"


The shazbot! dude, no one will disagree with you on that. You seem to suggest that something beyond that, like if I spend all my time dragging (hehe) my kid to musicals and taking him shopping that he's going to become "the queers".

The studies that you should take time to look at were done by Bailey and Pillard. Which studied the gayness between Fraternal (two eggs fertilized hot shot) and Identical (one egg, split) as well as...and this is key, non-related adopted brothers.

They found that 52%, FIFTY TWO PERCENT of identical twins were both self-identified homosexuals (a number verified in another studies of identical twins separated at birth)

Fraternal twins (essentially just brother and brother) 22% chance.

Non-related adopted brothers: 5% chance.

The closer genetically linked a pair is, the more likely they both exhibit gay or straight tendencies.




Please note where I said anything about musicals or other "gay things."  All I said was that abused children end up being gay more than non-abused children.  But thanks for putting words in my mouth.  I'll tell you exactly what I believe.  Ready?  Some people are more predisposed to being gay than others.  This would explain why fraternal twins are less likely to both be gay as compared to identical twins.  Look up the same study in regards to alcoholism or profession.  Same results.  So are these people also born accountants or born alcoholics?  Of course not.  So there you have it, my belief about "the gays" wrapped up.  Now, I'm ready for someone to tell me how much I hate gay people and how gayist I am.  Ready, set, go!! :comehere:

All of my gay friends come from good, loving, happy families. :dunno:

You have lot's of (I'm too stupid to find a better word than gay) friends? That says something in and of itself.

4 that I know of, probably more.  Where I live, you can't throw a Liza Minnelli CD without hitting one.

Lawrence, KS?

Excellent guess, but no.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Rage Against the McKee on June 10, 2010, 12:16:10 AM
There are several studies but here's the first one I found.  I know, it's old but still holds true.

Watkins, B. & Bentovim, A. (1992). The sexual abuse of male children and adolescents: a review of current research. Journal of Clinical Psychology & Psychiatry, 33(10), 197-248.


"Sexually abused boys later have greater sexual identity confusion and increased likelihood of homosexuality"


The shazbot! dude, no one will disagree with you on that. You seem to suggest that something beyond that, like if I spend all my time dragging (hehe) my kid to musicals and taking him shopping that he's going to become "the queers".

The studies that you should take time to look at were done by Bailey and Pillard. Which studied the gayness between Fraternal (two eggs fertilized hot shot) and Identical (one egg, split) as well as...and this is key, non-related adopted brothers.

They found that 52%, FIFTY TWO PERCENT of identical twins were both self-identified homosexuals (a number verified in another studies of identical twins separated at birth)

Fraternal twins (essentially just brother and brother) 22% chance.

Non-related adopted brothers: 5% chance.

The closer genetically linked a pair is, the more likely they both exhibit gay or straight tendencies.




Please note where I said anything about musicals or other "gay things."  All I said was that abused children end up being gay more than non-abused children.  But thanks for putting words in my mouth.  I'll tell you exactly what I believe.  Ready?  Some people are more predisposed to being gay than others.  This would explain why fraternal twins are less likely to both be gay as compared to identical twins.  Look up the same study in regards to alcoholism or profession.  Same results.  So are these people also born accountants or born alcoholics?  Of course not.  So there you have it, my belief about "the gays" wrapped up.  Now, I'm ready for someone to tell me how much I hate gay people and how gayist I am.  Ready, set, go!! :comehere:

All of my gay friends come from good, loving, happy families. :dunno:

You have lot's of (I'm too stupid to find a better word than gay) friends? That says something in and of itself.

4 that I know of, probably more.  Where I live, you can't throw a Liza Minnelli CD without hitting one.

Lawrence, KS?

Excellent guess, but no.

Joplin, MO?
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: john "teach me how to" dougie on June 10, 2010, 09:15:59 AM
There are several studies but here's the first one I found.  I know, it's old but still holds true.

Watkins, B. & Bentovim, A. (1992). The sexual abuse of male children and adolescents: a review of current research. Journal of Clinical Psychology & Psychiatry, 33(10), 197-248.


"Sexually abused boys later have greater sexual identity confusion and increased likelihood of homosexuality"


The shazbot! dude, no one will disagree with you on that. You seem to suggest that something beyond that, like if I spend all my time dragging (hehe) my kid to musicals and taking him shopping that he's going to become "the queers".

The studies that you should take time to look at were done by Bailey and Pillard. Which studied the gayness between Fraternal (two eggs fertilized hot shot) and Identical (one egg, split) as well as...and this is key, non-related adopted brothers.

They found that 52%, FIFTY TWO PERCENT of identical twins were both self-identified homosexuals (a number verified in another studies of identical twins separated at birth)

Fraternal twins (essentially just brother and brother) 22% chance.

Non-related adopted brothers: 5% chance.

The closer genetically linked a pair is, the more likely they both exhibit gay or straight tendencies.




Please note where I said anything about musicals or other "gay things."  All I said was that abused children end up being gay more than non-abused children.  But thanks for putting words in my mouth.  I'll tell you exactly what I believe.  Ready?  Some people are more predisposed to being gay than others.  This would explain why fraternal twins are less likely to both be gay as compared to identical twins.  Look up the same study in regards to alcoholism or profession.  Same results.  So are these people also born accountants or born alcoholics?  Of course not.  So there you have it, my belief about "the gays" wrapped up.  Now, I'm ready for someone to tell me how much I hate gay people and how gayist I am.  Ready, set, go!! :comehere:

All of my gay friends come from good, loving, happy families. :dunno:

You have lot's of (I'm too stupid to find a better word than gay) friends? That says something in and of itself.

4 that I know of, probably more.  Where I live, you can't throw a Liza Minnelli CD without hitting one.

Lawrence, KS?

Excellent guess, but no.

Joplin, MO?

I don't know if that is a good guess or not, but no.
Title: Re: Are Gay relationships morally acceptable?
Post by: Dirty Sanchez on June 10, 2010, 05:41:52 PM
It's kooky to want to be married?

I'm talking about the loud shouting activists that shout "we're here we're queer" in one sentence and then "leave us alone" in the next.  The queer next door is not typically of this type.