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Post by: SdK on April 05, 2012, 12:39:37 PM
I recently accepted a position that I was not too pumped about. It was a part time spot, working overnights on weekends. I viewed it as a "getting my foot in the door job." I intend to work in health care as a career later. I went through the screening process, the multiple interviews, etc. As it is a medical care job, I also was vaccinated, drug tested, etc. I was supposed to go to orientation Monday to start the job.

Yesterday, I receive a phone call of a better job for me. It is a full time position hanging siding over the summer. Hanging siding has been my favorite job to date. I get excited about it and love it. I would have a great opportunity to have my summer job be something I love doing and make a lot more money in the mean time.

I was wondering what is the best method to explain the the health care job that I have decided to take another job for the reasons I stated. E-mail? Phone? In person?
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Post by: yoga-like_abana on April 05, 2012, 12:42:01 PM
sounds like it would be a high turnover rate job. just call them dont be a puss.
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Post by: Dr Rick Daris on April 05, 2012, 12:43:49 PM
call them. tell that that you just got offered a job with better and more hours and feel obligated to take it. thank them for hiring you in the first place and apoligize for the bad timing of all of it. hang up phone.
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Post by: steve dave on April 05, 2012, 12:44:38 PM
if it's a company you want to work for eventually then call the hiring manager or HR contact and explain that a better opportunity presented itself and you regretfully have to turn down the job. 
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Post by: steve dave on April 05, 2012, 12:44:53 PM
yeah, what rick said
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Post by: Saulbadguy on April 05, 2012, 12:46:26 PM
It doesn't start until the summer? Why don't you just do the first job until the other job starts?
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Post by: SdK on April 05, 2012, 12:50:20 PM
It doesn't start until the summer? Why don't you just do the first job until the other job starts?

I want to work for Stormont once the fall semester starts back up, so I want to tell them I'm not taking their job in the best way possible so that I can leave in good standing. I dont want to take it and run a month later.


I was leaning towards going in and talking in person, because I'm a good speaker and I think sincerity is more easily conveyed. I just didn't know if it was necessarily warranted.
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Post by: steve dave on April 05, 2012, 12:56:32 PM
That would be fine but I don't think they will really care one way or another if you are there to tell them face to face
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Post by: _33 on April 05, 2012, 12:59:25 PM
I think it's weird to love hanging siding. But I love some weird things too I guess.
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Post by: SdK on April 05, 2012, 12:59:26 PM
That would be fine but I don't think they will really care one way or another if you are there to tell them face to face


Ok.

Also, When are you going to unpin that thread? I'd like to change my sig.
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Post by: Dr Rick Daris on April 05, 2012, 01:01:34 PM
I think it's weird to love hanging siding. But I love some weird things too I guess.

name them.
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Post by: SdK on April 05, 2012, 01:09:02 PM
I think it's weird to love hanging siding. But I love some weird things too I guess.

I can see that. I am really good at it. And as with all things that we are good at, our eyes become more finely tuned to the little details of the process. For me it was almost ALMOST like a form of art. Starting with this plywood adorned building and making it beautiful. Being able to look at it afterwards and knowing that all of the areas where a mistake could be made, none were to be found.
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Post by: OK_Cat on April 05, 2012, 01:20:57 PM
seems like if health care is what you want to do with your life, then you should take that job and not worry about being a rough ridin' redneck and hanging siding.   :dunno:
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Post by: ben ji on April 05, 2012, 03:18:26 PM
Agree with OK Cat.

Replace bartending with hanging siding.

You tend bar in aggieville, you really like doing it and you make pretty decent money. You could get a job over the summer at a real business in a career field that you like and would prepare you for a good paying job once you graduate but would make less money than if you stayed in the ville and tended bar.

Basically I'm saying that if you choose to stay in aggieville tending the bar over the summer your going to be a 27 year old bartender making $150 every friday and saturday night who is 12 hours short of graduating and has no real world skills besides the ability to make a mean whiskey seven.

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Post by: Dr Rick Daris on April 05, 2012, 03:21:16 PM
seems like if health care is what you want to do with your life, then you should take that job and not worry about being a rough ridin' redneck and hanging siding.   :dunno:

i think this is probably bad advice. sundance- what area of healthcare do you want to be involved in, how old are you now, are you in school working toward this healthcare career?
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Post by: SdK on April 05, 2012, 03:33:25 PM
seems like if health care is what you want to do with your life, then you should take that job and not worry about being a rough ridin' redneck and hanging siding.   :dunno:

i think this is probably bad advice. sundance- what area of healthcare do you want to be involved in, how old are you now, are you in school working toward this healthcare career?

It's terrible advice. Hanging siding over the summer means a tan and lots of coin as opposed to wiping asses part time for worse pay. I can get the patient care experience part time during the school year. I don't need to waste my summer part timing it and struggling make rent.

I am 26 years old (so the 27 year old bartender in the ville comment made me laugh :) ) studying Biochemistry at Washburn, and two years away from med school. In the fall I plan on either taking a PCT job like I just turned down or being a lab tech.

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Post by: ben ji on April 05, 2012, 03:38:29 PM
seems like if health care is what you want to do with your life, then you should take that job and not worry about being a rough ridin' redneck and hanging siding.   :dunno:

i think this is probably bad advice. sundance- what area of healthcare do you want to be involved in, how old are you now, are you in school working toward this healthcare career?

It's terrible advice. Hanging siding over the summer means a tan and lots of coin as opposed to wiping asses part time for worse pay. I can get the patient care experience part time during the school year. I don't need to waste my summer part timing it and struggling make rent.

I am 26 years old (so the 27 year old bartender in the ville comment made me laugh :) ) studying Biochemistry at Washburn, and two years away from med school. In the fall I plan on either taking a PCT job like I just turned down or being a lab tech.

well now that all the cards are on the table hang hang hang away.
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Post by: XocolateThundarr on April 05, 2012, 03:41:54 PM
Learn Spanish.
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Post by: Dr Rick Daris on April 05, 2012, 03:48:10 PM
seems like if health care is what you want to do with your life, then you should take that job and not worry about being a rough ridin' redneck and hanging siding.   :dunno:

i think this is probably bad advice. sundance- what area of healthcare do you want to be involved in, how old are you now, are you in school working toward this healthcare career?

It's terrible advice. Hanging siding over the summer means a tan and lots of coin as opposed to wiping asses part time for worse pay. I can get the patient care experience part time during the school year. I don't need to waste my summer part timing it and struggling make rent.

I am 26 years old (so the 27 year old bartender in the ville comment made me laugh :) ) studying Biochemistry at Washburn, and two years away from med school. In the fall I plan on either taking a PCT job like I just turned down or being a lab tech.

well now that all the cards are on the table hang hang hang away.

yep
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Post by: OK_Cat on April 05, 2012, 03:51:19 PM
sounds like you're going to go through life unsure of what you really want to do, skipping from job to job in hopes that you'll strike it rich or meet a lovely young widow who is rolling in the dough.

wake up and smell the roses, son.  time to get your ass a real job and settle down. 
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Post by: SdK on April 05, 2012, 03:53:39 PM
Learn Spanish.

Spanish minor  :gocho:
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Post by: jtksu on April 05, 2012, 03:53:41 PM
I was a lab tech for a while when I was about 26 or so.  I was fulltime and got paid fairly well for it.  Anyhoos, really cool job for a while.  I got to assist in a bunch of autopsies and cool crap like that.  After a year or so, I realized I didn't want to be stuck in a lab for the rest of my career and switched things up a bit.  I would love to go back and do it for like three months though...
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Post by: pissclams on April 05, 2012, 04:10:08 PM
health care is for pussies
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Post by: Bloodfart on April 05, 2012, 11:28:39 PM
health care is for pussies
wrong
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Post by: star seed 7 on April 05, 2012, 11:34:46 PM
stormont   :thumbs:
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Post by: puniraptor on April 05, 2012, 11:35:10 PM
if you really love hanging siding you should just do it for the rest of your life or until you stop loving hanging siding. If you don't like wiping adult asses you should probably cease your quest to become a male nurse.
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Post by: jtksu on April 05, 2012, 11:40:54 PM
It'd be sweet to do something for a living that you really enjoy.  eff, if I loved hanging siding, I'd hang the crap out of it and start my own company.
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Post by: SdK on April 05, 2012, 11:40:55 PM
if you really love hanging siding you should just do it for the rest of your life or until you stop loving hanging siding. If you don't like wiping adult asses you should probably cease your quest to become a male nurse.

Biochemistry majors that are minoring in Spanish and have stated that they are going to medical school in two years in the thread you made this comment in are clearly becoming male nurses...thanks for the commentary and solid gold advice though!
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Post by: Bloodfart on April 05, 2012, 11:44:30 PM
if you really love hanging siding you should just do it for the rest of your life or until you stop loving hanging siding. If you don't like wiping adult asses you should probably cease your quest to become a male nurse.

Biochemistry majors that are minoring in Spanish and have stated that they are going to medical school in two years in the thread you made this comment in are clearly becoming male nurses...thanks for the commentary and solid gold advice though!
:lol:
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Post by: SdK on April 05, 2012, 11:46:21 PM
It'd be sweet to do something for a living that you really enjoy.  eff, if I loved hanging siding, I'd hang the crap out of it and start my own company.

I do love hanging siding, but I don't always love everyone else that loves to hang siding. My boss at the time that I was doing it was 27 and making 75k a year. He didn't even own the company. I was 22 making 42k a year. I like to mentally challenged as well though, that's why I went back to school.

Moral of the story, learn to love manual labor and have a brain. You can make a fine living doing it.  :thumbsup:
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Post by: SdK on April 05, 2012, 11:52:31 PM
stormont   :thumbs:

You there? I should be in the fall.
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Post by: jtksu on April 05, 2012, 11:54:59 PM
I was born at Stormont.  Obviously, the entire hospital rejoiced.
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Post by: star seed 7 on April 05, 2012, 11:56:26 PM
stormont   :thumbs:

You there? I should be in the fall.

i was a lab courier  years ago, and have done lots of the remodeling and new construction around there more recently.  my mom is also a director there.  it's a good company to work for.
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Post by: SdK on April 05, 2012, 11:59:22 PM
stormont   :thumbs:

You there? I should be in the fall.

i was a lab courier  years ago, and have done lots of the remodeling and new construction around there more recently.  my mom is also a director there.  it's a good company to work for.

I'm not sure this is the thread to be admitting to associations with medical fields and/or construction work. And you did both in one post. I'll pray for thee.
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Post by: star seed 7 on April 06, 2012, 12:03:16 AM
probably right...
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Post by: Dr Rick Daris on April 06, 2012, 12:12:56 AM
It'd be sweet to do something for a living that you really enjoy.  eff, if I loved hanging siding, I'd hang the crap out of it and start my own company.

I do love hanging siding, but I don't always love everyone else that loves to hang siding. My boss at the time that I was doing it was 27 and making 75k a year. He didn't even own the company. I was 22 making 42k a year. I like to mentally challenged as well though, that's why I went back to school.

Moral of the story, learn to love manual labor and have a brain. You can make a fine living doing it.  :thumbsup:

so you love to do it and your 27 year old boss who didn't even own the company was already making 75k when he was basically the age that you are now. being mentally challenged is great but you can do that a billion different ways. i get the idea that you realize you are pretty  smart and capable, but for some reason feel like hanging siding or owning a business that does it is below you. why? who are you trying to show off to?
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Post by: SdK on April 06, 2012, 12:16:38 AM
It'd be sweet to do something for a living that you really enjoy.  eff, if I loved hanging siding, I'd hang the crap out of it and start my own company.

I do love hanging siding, but I don't always love everyone else that loves to hang siding. My boss at the time that I was doing it was 27 and making 75k a year. He didn't even own the company. I was 22 making 42k a year. I like to mentally challenged as well though, that's why I went back to school.

Moral of the story, learn to love manual labor and have a brain. You can make a fine living doing it.  :thumbsup:

so you love to do it and your 27 year old boss who didn't even own the company was already making 75k when he was basically the age that you are now. being mentally challenged is great but you can do that a billion different ways. i get the idea that you realize you are pretty  smart and capable, but for some reason feel like hanging siding or owning a business that does it is below you. why? who are you trying to show off to?

If you want to know really, I'll pm it to you. I'm not going to lay it out for the board to use against me later.
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Post by: Trim on April 07, 2012, 04:01:39 PM
Just don't show up for the job you accepted, don't call or let them know you won't be there and pretend nothing's wrong.