Given that you embrace this logic for us, it is even harder to see how Russia wouldn't apply the same logic to themselves.
if you want to argue that we should mind our own business a bit more on the world stage, feel free to advance that argument. but if you advance it in relation to a foreign country interfering in our elections, the only three possibilities i see are:
1. we've interfered with other countries, ergo we deserve this as penance.
2. we've interfered with other countries, ergo we cannot complain in turn lest we commit the cardinal sin of hypocrisy.
3. we've interfered with other countries and i'd rather talk about that than talk about the issue at hand, ergo "whatabout us tho".
frankly, i'm extending you the benefit of the doubt in assuming your point is the third, as the first two are mindbendingly stupid.