Not sure. We want kids, but not for awhile. we laugh at it now. However, she does well for herself and I think what she perceives normal is houses with pools, horses, trips around the world, and kids to go a long with it. Going to a Royals game when I was growing up was a big deal to our family and I've already surpassed them in those type of life events, so I think I'm doing OK. Different worlds you guys.