Author Topic: late night pit (Read 20634 times)

star seed 7 · « **Reply #101 on:** March 04, 2015, 12:11:19 PM »

I'm very proud of our guy WackyCat08 using a classy word like intimacy

michigancat · « **Reply #102 on:** March 04, 2015, 12:15:02 PM »

Sad for ole wacky

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #103 on:** March 04, 2015, 12:19:33 PM »

I'll be alright. At least I'm growing up and talking about this kind of stuff instead of just moving on to the next one. She has some valid points, but she's also a little extreme in some areas.

Rage Against the McKee · « **Reply #104 on:** March 04, 2015, 12:23:11 PM »

Whatever you settle on, make sure she is really ok with it. You don't want to end up married to somebody you can't please.

michigancat · « **Reply #105 on:** March 04, 2015, 12:24:59 PM »

I think what she's doing is complete bullshit and you SHOULD move on.

What happened to the kickball money?

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #106 on:** March 04, 2015, 12:27:04 PM »

Quote from: michigancat on March 04, 2015, 12:24:59 PM

I think what she's doing is complete bullshit and you SHOULD move on.

What happened to the kickball money?

The guy sold the company to someone else and went back on his word with me, because he got engaged and moved to Arkansas with his fiancé. So now, I'm just a kickball ref on the side.

It's been quite the year already.

michigancat · « **Reply #107 on:** March 04, 2015, 12:27:55 PM »

Yeesh

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #108 on:** March 04, 2015, 12:28:07 PM »

We're giving each other some space the rest of the week. She's got happy hours with friends and she'll be staying over at their places and I'll be in Manhattan this weekend.

Dugout DickStone · « **Reply #109 on:** March 04, 2015, 12:52:03 PM »

Ask her how many times her family took her on a trip around the world. The answer is the same number you have.

0.42 · « **Reply #110 on:** March 04, 2015, 01:09:44 PM »

as someone who knows very little about this situation and is therefore completely qualified to comment on it, she sounds like she has unreasonable expectations and you should punt her before she punts you

SdK · « **Reply #111 on:** March 04, 2015, 01:13:06 PM »

Wacky. You deserve better than this. It is good you guys are having these chats now and I hope it is resolved in a manner than allows for you both to be happy. Whether that means together or apart.

#TheWesIsTheFuture

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #112 on:** March 04, 2015, 01:27:32 PM »

Spracne · « **Reply #113 on:** March 04, 2015, 01:31:22 PM »

For one person to marry up, another has to marry down. Perhaps this is a new revelation to her. Or, and this could be the real poison, she is getting pressured by her family.

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #114 on:** March 04, 2015, 01:44:11 PM »

Quote from: Spracne on March 04, 2015, 01:31:22 PM

For one person to marry up, another has to marry down. Perhaps this is a new revelation to her. Or, and this could be the real poison, she is getting pressured by her family.

I don't think she's getting poisoned, I think she see's a pissing match with her family. She has 5 bros and they're all fairly successful. She see's their huge houses and crazy ass trips and assumes that will be her life too no matter what. Which, it eventually will be anyways, with her trust fund. I think she wants to brag back to her brothers and say "wacky does this and wacky does that!" Status has never really mattered to me tho. Maybe it's because I was born without one.

CNS · « **Reply #115 on:** March 04, 2015, 03:03:02 PM »

If all her bros can afford that, sounds like she is the one not pulling her weight, to me.

Also, if the bros aren't using their trusts, I would guess that they are financing some of the extravagance.

michigancat · « **Reply #116 on:** March 04, 2015, 03:05:38 PM »

Quote from: CNS on March 04, 2015, 03:03:02 PM

If all her bros can afford that, sounds like she is the one not pulling her weight, to me.

Also, if the bros aren't using their trusts, I would guess that they are financing some of the extravagance.

They also likely have more valuable degrees, came out of school debt free, have masters degrees (real ones), etc.

This girl won't ever be satisfied, it's not worth the stress.

8manpick · « **Reply #117 on:** March 04, 2015, 03:10:44 PM »

Quote from: michigancat on March 04, 2015, 03:05:38 PM

Quote from: CNS on March 04, 2015, 03:03:02 PM
If all her bros can afford that, sounds like she is the one not pulling her weight, to me.

Also, if the bros aren't using their trusts, I would guess that they are financing some of the extravagance.

They also likely have more valuable degrees, came out of school debt free, have masters degrees (real ones), etc.

This girl won't ever be satisfied, it's not worth the stress.

How old does this girl have to be to access her trust? I thought she was 35 or something...

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #118 on:** March 04, 2015, 03:11:28 PM »

Last night I got: "I just hate that you settle. You're smart and well educated, but you continue to settle for jobs that you're comfortable with". (WC08 interrupts) WC08: "Didn't you work at Hallmark for 9 years making around the same that I make now? And you jumped ship for only a 5 K raise?" Ms. wacky: "That's different. You hate what you do. At least I did something about it". WC08: "I did too, By getting a paycheck this week and continuing to look".

BTW, she use to bitch about that job non-stop and recently bought a Tahoe that she can't afford "because you know cars are my only thing that I have a problem with". Sigh!

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #119 on:** March 04, 2015, 03:13:14 PM »

Quote from: 8manpick on March 04, 2015, 03:10:44 PM

Quote from: michigancat on March 04, 2015, 03:05:38 PM
Quote from: CNS on March 04, 2015, 03:03:02 PM
If all her bros can afford that, sounds like she is the one not pulling her weight, to me.

Also, if the bros aren't using their trusts, I would guess that they are financing some of the extravagance.

They also likely have more valuable degrees, came out of school debt free, have masters degrees (real ones), etc.

This girl won't ever be satisfied, it's not worth the stress.

How old does this girl have to be to access her trust? I thought she was 35 or something...

She's 33. Also, I don't know if It's a trust. It's what her grandparents will hand over once there gone. Let's not focus on that tho. I don't wanna get in trouble.

Headinjun · « **Reply #120 on:** March 04, 2015, 03:14:11 PM »

Tell that meal ticket hooch to bounce!!

Sounds to me like she doesn't know the real world.

Stay single with no kids and you'll thank yourself later.

michigancat · « **Reply #121 on:** March 04, 2015, 03:14:24 PM »

Quote from: WackyCat08 on March 04, 2015, 03:11:28 PM

Last night I got: "I just hate that you settle. You're smart and well educated, but you continue to settle for jobs that you're comfortable with". (WC08 interrupts) WC08: "Didn't you work at Hallmark for 9 years making around the same that I make now? And you jumped ship for only a 5 K raise?" Ms. wacky: "That's different. You hate what you do. At least I did something about it". WC08: "I did too, By getting a paycheck this week and continuing to look".

BTW, she use to bitch about that job non-stop and recently bought a Tahoe that she can't afford "because you know cars are my only thing that I have a problem with". Sigh!

I mean, I hate that you settle, too. But I hope you're looking for another job for you, and not to fund her lifestyle.

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #122 on:** March 04, 2015, 03:16:03 PM »

Yeah, I agree. I had a great phone interview today with a really good company. I'll be going in for a interview next week. Inside sales role that would fit me really well.

CNS · « **Reply #123 on:** March 04, 2015, 03:18:33 PM »

Does it pay the required $85k?

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8manpick · « **Reply #124 on:** March 04, 2015, 03:19:07 PM »

Quote from: WackyCat08 on March 04, 2015, 03:13:14 PM

Quote from: 8manpick on March 04, 2015, 03:10:44 PM

Quote from: michigancat on March 04, 2015, 03:05:38 PM
Quote from: CNS on March 04, 2015, 03:03:02 PM
If all her bros can afford that, sounds like she is the one not pulling her weight, to me.

Also, if the bros aren't using their trusts, I would guess that they are financing some of the extravagance.

They also likely have more valuable degrees, came out of school debt free, have masters degrees (real ones), etc.

This girl won't ever be satisfied, it's not worth the stress.

How old does this girl have to be to access her trust? I thought she was 35 or something...
She's 33. Also, I don't know if It's a trust. It's what her grandparents will hand over once there gone. Let's not focus on that tho. I don't wanna get in trouble.

That's fair