All the info this thread brought out is shocking when you look at the whole picture, and now it's pretty contentious.
When I first posted it was to get information. It worked, and I’m grateful for that.
Some of you think it's boring that I ended up with no home and damaged credit to accommodate a man who lied to me about everything, but it raised a lot of questions. This thread created a place for answers. Ron lies to people about what went on at K State. He acts like he was a paragon of virtue, humbly guiding his players and serving the university that ultimately did him wrong and failed to appreciate his brilliance. A shade off the truth.
We learned about Bunny, the play book funeral and other creepy coaching, like grabbing players by the nuts or calling them “fu@3ing pu$$ies.” The babysitter debacle, the real reason for Football 101, and hitting on a player's mom. Not to mention the truth about Desire Cancun. Also, thanks to FB, a visitor found a small army of Ranni relationships. This has created a stir, but Ranni and his affairs don’t seem to mind people knowing. He keeps pictures of them in his phone to show off.
And Tuck, to answer your post, we emailed for almost a year, never even in the same state. He was so thoughtful and kind. I know it was a con, but it wasn't the tawdry thing you describe. I was slow to figure it out. He hid a lot of things on the other side of the continent. Ron will love your work.
The humor here is appreciated. One of the darkest times in my life (sorry for those of you who find this boring) and finding a way to laugh about stuff like Desire makes it seem less creepy.