So this looks like "we deserve this because we do things the right way but no one loves us but you really really should love us."
I'll backtrack a bit on fan culture. Sure fans do have a culture but I think the culture is more defined in fan bases that are more regional than national. I think for Red Sox and Yankee fans if you live in Kansas you're likely to have a much different impression of what a Red Sox fan who has spent his whole life living in the midwest than one who grew up in southie. Strangely enough, well it isn't strange the history of the two franchises dictate this, but Red Sox fans in New England are impatient people who hate everyone and everything and are never satisfied. However, Yankee fans that I know from NY are always confident that they will win the world series and every single signing is the best signing. I have found though that Red Sox fans outside of New England are generally happy with any and everything but Yankee fans outside of NY are impatient and have a chip on their shoulders.