Author Topic: Planning weddings (Read 87547 times)

Rage Against the McKee · « **Reply #875 on:** March 30, 2016, 02:18:20 PM »

I know if I got an invitation to a wedding and had kids over the age of 14, I wouldn't really think twice about bringing them if the invitation said "no kids".

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #876 on:** March 30, 2016, 02:22:14 PM »

I know. Trust me, I know. He's a quiet ass kid too. He's not even going to do anything besides play video games on his phone.

The problem is, most of her siblings live in KC or have access to a airport and fly home all the time. My brother is driving all the way from Monroe, LA. How am I supposed to tell him no, when my nephew has looked up to me for a long time?

8manpick · « **Reply #877 on:** March 30, 2016, 02:22:22 PM »

Quote from: Rage Against the McKee on March 30, 2016, 02:18:20 PM

I know if I got an invitation to a wedding and had kids over the age of 14, I wouldn't really think twice about bringing them if the invitation said "no kids".

Depends if the invite was addressed to Mr and Mrs RATM or Mr and Mrs RATM and family...

8manpick · « **Reply #878 on:** March 30, 2016, 02:22:57 PM »

Quote from: WackyCat08 on March 30, 2016, 02:22:14 PM

I know. Trust me, I know. He's a quiet ass kid too. He's not even going to do anything besides play video games on his phone.

The problem is, most of her siblings live in KC or have access to a airport and fly home all the time. My brother is driving all the way from Monroe, LA. How am I supposed to tell him no, when my nephew has looked up to me for a long time?

Tell your fiancée no, not your nephew

Rage Against the McKee · « **Reply #879 on:** March 30, 2016, 02:23:40 PM »

Why not just tell her that her family is welcome to show up, too?

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #880 on:** March 30, 2016, 02:24:12 PM »

Quote from: 8manpick on March 30, 2016, 02:22:57 PM

Quote from: WackyCat08 on March 30, 2016, 02:22:14 PM
I know. Trust me, I know. He's a quiet ass kid too. He's not even going to do anything besides play video games on his phone.

The problem is, most of her siblings live in KC or have access to a airport and fly home all the time. My brother is driving all the way from Monroe, LA. How am I supposed to tell him no, when my nephew has looked up to me for a long time?

Tell your fiancée no, not your nephew

That's where i'm heading.

star seed 7 · « **Reply #881 on:** March 30, 2016, 02:31:54 PM »

1) the nephew is fine, she's being unreasonable.

2)the co workers is weird and I agree with her. Getting pakked with coworkers is a bad idea but Yolo

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #882 on:** March 30, 2016, 02:32:28 PM »

Skinnybenny should start a poll. Does wacky make it to wedding day?

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #883 on:** March 30, 2016, 02:34:07 PM »

Quote from: libliblibliblibliblib on March 30, 2016, 02:31:54 PM

1) the nephew is fine, she's being unreasonable.

2)the co workers is weird and I agree with her. Getting pakked with coworkers is a bad idea but Yolo

I can understand #2. But it's better than the cousin I never speak to, who's waiting for grandma to die, so he can take over her land. That side of the family, man...

star seed 7 · « **Reply #884 on:** March 30, 2016, 02:35:03 PM »

Don't invite people you don't like, it's pretty simple

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #885 on:** March 30, 2016, 02:36:38 PM »

Yeah, that's why I just had lunch with my mom. I actually like my coworkers and i've been pak'd with them all. I don't think they'll judge me at my wedding reception.

Cartierfor3 · « **Reply #886 on:** March 30, 2016, 02:44:52 PM »

Quote from: WackyCat08 on March 30, 2016, 02:32:28 PM

Skinnybenny should start a poll. Does wacky make it to wedding day?

there is no way she'd let you out

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #887 on:** March 30, 2016, 02:50:58 PM »

Dr Rick Daris · « **Reply #888 on:** March 30, 2016, 02:59:46 PM »

Quote from: ChiCat on March 30, 2016, 02:12:53 PM

give him a job and pretend he was the exception because he is an usher/ring bearer/break dancer/sketch artist/Wackycat Wrangler

this is the best advice.

meow meow · « **Reply #889 on:** March 30, 2016, 03:09:18 PM »

just how pak'd do you plan on getting at your wedding?

mocat · « **Reply #890 on:** March 30, 2016, 03:18:18 PM »

going into my wedding i was afraid it might be easy to get too pak'd because of all the excitement and everybody bingeing and whatnot, but then the day comes and you find out that the entire wedding and reception combined is like 4 seconds long and you have no time to pak too much

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #891 on:** March 30, 2016, 03:27:18 PM »

Quote from: meow meow on March 30, 2016, 03:09:18 PM

just how pak'd do you plan on getting at your wedding?

Not very. It will be our reception back home. I'll be worn out. Colorado from thursday till sunday. Then punta cana from sunday till saturday and then back home and then back to work and the reception will be the following week. I doubt anyone from here will go to it minus my manager and coworker anyways. It's July 1st and the weekend of the 4th of july.

mocat · « **Reply #892 on:** March 30, 2016, 04:04:22 PM »

your reception is like 2 weeks after your wedding?

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #893 on:** March 30, 2016, 04:06:38 PM »

Yes, I know. Very annoying. My mom said that's common?!

It's better than nothing I guess.

mocat · « **Reply #894 on:** March 30, 2016, 04:08:11 PM »

you are getting married in colorado sans reception, then going on the honeymoon, then going to work for a week, then having a reception sans wedding ceremony in kansas city?

Cartierfor3 · « **Reply #895 on:** March 30, 2016, 04:08:27 PM »

Does Mrs. WC08 put the wedding dress back on?

mocat · « **Reply #896 on:** March 30, 2016, 04:08:53 PM »

it sounds more like you are getting eloped in colorado than married

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #897 on:** March 30, 2016, 04:09:45 PM »

Quote from: mocat on March 30, 2016, 04:08:11 PM

you are getting married in colorado sans reception, then going on the honeymoon, then going to work for a week, then having a reception sans wedding ceremony in kansas city?

Yes

Quote from: Cartierfor3 on March 30, 2016, 04:08:27 PM

Does Mrs. WC08 put the wedding dress back on?

Yes

Cartierfor3 · « **Reply #898 on:** March 30, 2016, 04:10:32 PM »

will you be jumping in the lake at some point

meow meow · « **Reply #899 on:** March 30, 2016, 04:11:45 PM »

Quote from: WackyCat08 on March 30, 2016, 04:09:45 PM

Quote from: mocat on March 30, 2016, 04:08:11 PM
you are getting married in colorado sans reception, then going on the honeymoon, then going to work for a week, then having a reception sans wedding ceremony in kansas city?
Yes

Quote from: Cartierfor3 on March 30, 2016, 04:08:27 PM
Does Mrs. WC08 put the wedding dress back on?
Yes

this is very interesting/unusual