I truly don't understand people who RSVP for an event and then don't show without any prior notice. If any of you have other done that before, then you've been a really shitty person at some point in your life. I mean who thinks it's honestly okay to ask other people to provide free food/drink/entertainment for them, and then not only decide to turn down their free stuff, but then not even have the courtesy to let them know that they don't need to provide that stuff for them anymore. Like, "yeah bro, I understand you threw away ten bucks because I didn't come to the party last night, but something came up that was less shitty than hanging out with you, and I don't respect you enough to let you know about that so that you could plan accordingly."