Thanks for that laugh Mr Bread, I needed that! True, whether it was true or not, why would any man keep that in his phone, even if he wanted to use against her in court, could have sent to attorney and then dumped it. I was wondering how many other winners/losers were reading this disturbing thread. It's like a morbid soap opera and we are the cast, albeit unwilling. Some of the responses have been a little rough but nothing I haven't beat myself up over already, being a complete DA would be one. I am not unintelligent, I'm considered quite a looker, I do financial work and I model. So still not clear as to why I let this happen to me. I used to ask him why was there such apparent animosity towards him and why years later was he still being talked abt by you guys. He didn't know why he continues to be persacuted.