Thank you MSLF. It did cheer me up.
The truth is, I think every day about the fact that I let him into my kids' lives, and that I passed on job opportunities because he might have needed me to move to Pittsburgh to tend the family. Still cry every day about the fact that I didn't catch on sooner.
Ranni does, however, make me feel better. Ron owes you one, because when they run him out of football for being the anti-mentor, he can start a career in music/new age sex therapy. He can sing love songs to his "clients" in the Desire hot tub. A little slice of heaven...