One thing about having a son that really changed me...I'm much more sensitive to plight of children. I recently did a vision quest-y kind of thing and for me that's a good time to evaluate my life and such, and I made a promise to myself to shift our (my family's) patterns of charitable giving and volunteer work to benefit kids. They are universally sweet, innocent, and vulnerable, and they don't have much choice in anything. So, I don't really know how or where to start, open to ideas if any of you are involved in something like that.