I couldn't watch the fertility dance, I knew exactly what they were going to do too. It was similar to me in shock value to the Oklahoma City hotel scene in the first movie. The rest of the debutante dance was great though, the daughter getting pissed at her dad.
The synagogue scene was set up, either that or it was so obvious what was going on that was only going to be the result. Either that woman was mic'ed up or they came in with him dressed like that with a camera and sound crew.
The plastic surgery scene, the babysitter, and the quarantine were also all 100% set ups.