which one screams "downtown portland" more than the others?
And I was in downtown Portland on Sunday (drinking coffee, I might add).
more elite leyton: downtown portland or downtown seattle?
I'm not qualified to answer that question, actually. Didn't spend much time in downtown Seattle despite being at UW. Downtown Seattle is more business-like than elite, IMO. Absolutely nothing going on after 6pm. Plus, buses effing everywhere thanks to complete lack of elite modern pubTrans. Elite (hip) Seattle is Capitol Hill, Fremont, and Belltown. You've lived there, though, right? You should know.
Downtown PDX is cheap enough that many of the young, creative folks (many of whom have fled from Seattle's high rents) can afford to live there...or at least right across the river. Portland music scene is pretty incredible for the size of the city - so many bands call it home. In my experience, Portland coffee shops are more elite. You'll find Tully's and Starbucks all over Seattle, and those, my friend, can't be elite no matter how hard they try. Also, there are tons of complete assholes in Seattle, whereas Portlanders are pretty mellow. IMO, a lot of Seattleites fear/know that their city is inferior to NYC (and to a lesser extent San Francisco), and Portland residents fear/know that their city is inferior to San Francisco (and to a lesser extent Seattle). Seattle is super hungry for condo towers a la Vancouver, BC, whereas most people in Portland would hate to see downtown PDX "yuppiefied" by condos (it's happening anyway in NW Portland).