Author Topic: Wacky gives Marriage Advice (Read 9733 times)

Mrs. Gooch · « **on:** March 23, 2018, 09:49:19 AM »

Wacky please fill this thread with all the knowledge you have learned in the time you have been married.

GregKSU1027 · « **Reply #1 on:** March 23, 2018, 09:50:43 AM »

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420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #2 on:** March 23, 2018, 09:55:24 AM »

This is a good thread. I feel like it would be better if ppl came to me with their problems and then have me give the .sleepycatgif answer to resolve the issue. It's been a walk in the park so far.

gatoveintisiete · « **Reply #3 on:** March 23, 2018, 10:03:23 AM »

Call it Gator and me

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #4 on:** March 23, 2018, 10:04:00 AM »

1. Listen and then respond. Some ppl are just too damn prideful when it comes to a decision and/or little spat.

2. Make more $ than her. They respect you more and it's hard for them to say no to something you want. (Just being silly here. She's pretty great about giving me everything I want. She knows I don't ask for a lot)

3. Put your foot down from time to time. Sometimes you've gotta say no. 3 year olds friend of a friends bday party, a new shiny car, etc. Lets use sense in these matters. At the same time, she's helped me a lot with my faults. Listen to her, she knows some things too.

4. Get off your ass and do something around the house. I've taken for granted how many things she does for us. When she leaves town, i'm kinda like "eff!". Laundry, dishes, house stuff, etc. I've been spoiled. Trying to get better.

5. Compliment them and say thank you as much as you can.

meow meow · « **Reply #5 on:** March 23, 2018, 10:59:46 AM »

what about bedroom stuff wacks?

Dugout DickStone · « **Reply #6 on:** March 23, 2018, 11:26:10 AM »

Quote from: meow meow on March 23, 2018, 10:59:46 AM

what about bedroom stuff wacks?

Don’t be weird

meow meow · « **Reply #7 on:** March 23, 2018, 11:40:36 AM »

Quote from: Dugout DickStone on March 23, 2018, 11:26:10 AM

Quote from: meow meow on March 23, 2018, 10:59:46 AM
what about bedroom stuff wacks?

Don’t be weird

meant like closet space, sharing a shower, 1 or 2 sinks, etc.

not sure what you were eluding to

Mrs. Gooch · « **Reply #8 on:** March 23, 2018, 11:45:20 AM »

Quote from: meow meow on March 23, 2018, 11:40:36 AM

Quote from: Dugout DickStone on March 23, 2018, 11:26:10 AM

Quote from: meow meow on March 23, 2018, 10:59:46 AM
what about bedroom stuff wacks?

Don’t be weird

meant like closet space, sharing a shower, 1 or 2 sinks, etc.

not sure what you were eluding to

These are generally in the bathroom, not bedroom.

meow meow · « **Reply #9 on:** March 23, 2018, 11:49:18 AM »

Quote from: Mrs. Gooch on March 23, 2018, 11:45:20 AM

Quote from: meow meow on March 23, 2018, 11:40:36 AM
Quote from: Dugout DickStone on March 23, 2018, 11:26:10 AM

Quote from: meow meow on March 23, 2018, 10:59:46 AM
what about bedroom stuff wacks?

Don’t be weird

meant like closet space, sharing a shower, 1 or 2 sinks, etc.

not sure what you were eluding to

These are generally in the bathroom, not bedroom.

maybe i have a really open floor plan, ever heard of that one stan?

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #10 on:** March 23, 2018, 01:09:50 PM »

What's great right now is I made sure she got her own princess room and the other guest bedroom is pretty much my room with a tv and the woks in case I can't sleep during the week (this happens from time to time and I don't want to keep her up by watching tv in bed. I'm like that child on big daddy rolling around on newspapers when I can't sleep). We have plenty of space at the new house which is great. We'll just have to adjust as our family grows down the road. She made sure the downstairs was pretty much a sports zone for me for the big games too.

Mrs. Gooch · « **Reply #11 on:** March 23, 2018, 01:18:04 PM »

You have 3 bedrooms?
1. Master bedroom that you share
2. Princess bedroom for a grown ass woman
3. TV bedroom for Wacky

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #12 on:** March 23, 2018, 01:25:24 PM »

Quote from: Mrs. Gooch on March 23, 2018, 01:18:04 PM

You have 3 bedrooms?
1. Master bedroom that you share
2. Princess bedroom for a grown ass woman ----- Baby room
3. TV bedroom for Wacky---- Guest bedroom

Pretty much, but what these rooms will really look like in the end is this. ^

meow meow · « **Reply #13 on:** March 23, 2018, 01:41:21 PM »

man, once the first lil wacky comes, i wonder who is gonna give up their "fun" room

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #14 on:** March 23, 2018, 01:44:47 PM »

She can have mine. I've got the downstairs.

gatoveintisiete · « **Reply #15 on:** March 23, 2018, 02:23:41 PM »

A lot of people waste money on spaces they use very little (unfortunately this includes me). Pools, outdoor living areas, basements with bars, pool tables, and theatres all sound like must haves but rarely if ever get used. Invest in badass kitchen hearth areas, and master suites, that’s where it’s really at. My next house will be much smaller with a fraction of the taxes, insurance, and utilities. The space will be the most efficiently badass use anyone has ever seen.

8manpick · « **Reply #16 on:** March 23, 2018, 02:41:13 PM »

Quote from: gatoveintisiete on March 23, 2018, 02:23:41 PM

A lot of people waste money on spaces they use very little (unfortunately this includes me). Pools, outdoor living areas, basements with bars, pool tables, and theatres all sound like must haves but rarely if ever get used. Invest in badass kitchen hearth areas, and master suites, that’s where it’s really at. My next house will be much smaller with a fraction of the taxes, insurance, and utilities. The space will be the most efficiently badass use anyone has ever seen.

Boring. My next house is going to be a mansion with a theater room, pool/hot tub combo with cabana, game room, man cave etc.

Rage Against the McKee · « **Reply #17 on:** March 23, 2018, 02:57:24 PM »

Quote from: gatoveintisiete on March 23, 2018, 02:23:41 PM

A lot of people waste money on spaces they use very little (unfortunately this includes me). Pools, outdoor living areas, basements with bars, pool tables, and theatres all sound like must haves but rarely if ever get used. Invest in badass kitchen hearth areas, and master suites, that’s where it’s really at. My next house will be much smaller with a fraction of the taxes, insurance, and utilities. The space will be the most efficiently badass use anyone has ever seen.

I use all of that crap in my house at least 3 times per week. I don't have a pool, so that one doesn't count.

meow meow · « **Reply #18 on:** March 23, 2018, 03:07:15 PM »

yeah who wants a badass outdoor living/bar area, when you can just dump some gravel there for a fraction of the cost?

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #19 on:** March 23, 2018, 03:19:38 PM »

I will admit that my PS4 doesn't get enough work in my man cave, but I like my wife too much, so I hang out with her upstairs when there's not a game on. When she's out though and there's nothing on.... Fortnite!

gatoveintisiete · « **Reply #20 on:** March 23, 2018, 03:42:11 PM »

Quote from: 8manpick on March 23, 2018, 02:41:13 PM

Quote from: gatoveintisiete on March 23, 2018, 02:23:41 PM
A lot of people waste money on spaces they use very little (unfortunately this includes me). Pools, outdoor living areas, basements with bars, pool tables, and theatres all sound like must haves but rarely if ever get used. Invest in badass kitchen hearth areas, and master suites, that’s where it’s really at. My next house will be much smaller with a fraction of the taxes, insurance, and utilities. The space will be the most efficiently badass use anyone has ever seen.
Boring. My next house is going to be a mansion with a theater room, pool/hot tub combo with cabana, game room, man cave etc.

Said every dude that hasn’t had one, I get it. I just would do it different if I did it over.

GregKSU1027 · « **Reply #21 on:** March 23, 2018, 03:51:50 PM »

Quote from: WackyCat08 on March 23, 2018, 03:19:38 PM

I will admit that my PS4 doesn't get enough work in my man cave, but I like my wife too much, so I hang out with her upstairs when there's not a game on. When she's out though and there's nothing on.... Fortnite!

Bet you are a shitty builder wacks

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420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #22 on:** March 23, 2018, 03:53:00 PM »

I have no idea wtf i'm doing. I get yelled at all the time.

Doesn't help that i'm usually PAK'd on the weekend when I give it a try.

Institutional Control · « **Reply #23 on:** March 23, 2018, 05:58:16 PM »

Wacky, what would you do if you moved half way across the country for a job and your wife constantly talks about wanting to move back to Texas?

Asking for a friend and I’ll take your answer offline.

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420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #24 on:** March 23, 2018, 07:29:01 PM »

Great question bud! I'd say we talked this through before moving and you were all in (maybe acted all in, but not my fault) and say we agreed to this. Ask her to give her all for another year and if it doesn't work out, we'll regroup. Lived in 5 states growing up, but plea to her to give it a shot first.