Disagreeing with another's decisions in no way, shape, or form insinuates bigotry. I can disagree with tons of beliefs, but it doesn't mean I should or would treat them any differently than my best friend or family member. Why is that so difficult for some to comprehend.
So far, the biggest example of bigotry is coming from those in favor of homosexuality. How can you not see the irony in this? I believe that above all else is love, and even though I don't agree with you, I should still try to love you with all of my heart and hope for the best for you. It is easy to lump religious believers into an intolerant, unintelligent, non-progressive box. Yet many also lump homosexuals into a nice, neat box also. How is that any different than what you're actively condemning?