Author Topic: late night pit (Read 20518 times)

mocat · « **Reply #50 on:** February 20, 2015, 11:07:17 PM »

Sorry Tobias this is no pit night

Tobias · « **Reply #51 on:** February 20, 2015, 11:13:13 PM »

cDubya · « **Reply #52 on:** March 02, 2015, 11:06:31 PM »

I could really liven this place up right now, but I don't know any of you anywhere near well enough to trust you...

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #53 on:** March 02, 2015, 11:14:44 PM »

Ms. Wacky thinks I need to make a certain number in the future for us to have a happy life and I don't necessarily agree with her. I grew up with dad in college, married, with two kids and we made it work. I think it's the glamor life or bust for her tho. I've decided to lay on the couch watching friends tonight to think this through.

The Big Train · « **Reply #54 on:** March 02, 2015, 11:38:40 PM »

spill it cdubs

Wacky, this could be a point in your life that is a game changer either way

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #55 on:** March 02, 2015, 11:42:48 PM »

Yeah, I know. Good luck on sleeping tonight, fanman.

star seed 7 · « **Reply #56 on:** March 03, 2015, 12:13:45 AM »

ms wacky is wrong, you can tell her i said so

star seed 7 · « **Reply #57 on:** March 03, 2015, 12:14:44 AM »

Quote from: libliblibliblibliblib on March 03, 2015, 12:13:45 AM

ms wacky is wrong, you can tell her i said so

mention all of ksuw's money problems from being rich

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #58 on:** March 03, 2015, 12:17:54 AM »

Mr Bread · « **Reply #59 on:** March 03, 2015, 12:15:54 PM »

Quote from: WackyCat08 on March 02, 2015, 11:14:44 PM

Ms. Wacky thinks I need to make a certain number in the future for us to have a happy life and I don't necessarily agree with her. I grew up with dad in college, married, with two kids and we made it work. I think it's the glamor life or bust for her tho. I've decided to lay on the couch watching friends tonight to think this through.

What's the number?

CNS · « **Reply #60 on:** March 03, 2015, 01:13:26 PM »

Is it more than she makes? Has she known what you have been making?

Spracne · « **Reply #61 on:** March 03, 2015, 01:16:49 PM »

I won two free tickets in a radio contest to Red Flags over Kansas City. Does anyone want them?

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #62 on:** March 03, 2015, 01:18:20 PM »

Quote from: CNS on March 03, 2015, 01:13:26 PM

Is it more than she makes? Has she known what you have been making?

Yes. Yes. She wants me to get to 85 k or higher. Also mentioned: "Do you like watching your friends go on vacation while were getting by comfortable, but staying put in KC?! I wanna travel. I wanna have kids, etc. I want a life". I'm not broke by any means you guys.

CNS · « **Reply #63 on:** March 03, 2015, 01:24:31 PM »

Rage Against the McKee · « **Reply #64 on:** March 03, 2015, 01:25:21 PM »

Quote from: WackyCat08 on March 03, 2015, 01:18:20 PM

Quote from: CNS on March 03, 2015, 01:13:26 PM
Is it more than she makes? Has she known what you have been making?
Yes. Yes. She wants me to get to 85 k or higher. Also mentioned: "Do you like watching your friends go on vacation while were getting by comfortable, but staying put in KC?! I wanna travel. I wanna have kids, etc. I want a life". I'm not broke by any means you guys.

You mean she wants you to go find a job that pays that right now, or go find something that will get you up there over the next 10 years or so?

cDubya · « **Reply #65 on:** March 03, 2015, 01:29:01 PM »

Quote from: The Big Train on March 02, 2015, 11:38:40 PM

spill it cdubs

May have been a little pak'd last night, probably best I stopped at that. Lol

Fedor · « **Reply #66 on:** March 03, 2015, 01:29:34 PM »

The huge red flag for me is that she implies that she has all these wants but it is someone else's responsibility to make it happen. Yuck.
Also yuck to me for judging someone based on a few sentences posted on the internet.

CNS · « **Reply #67 on:** March 03, 2015, 01:41:08 PM »

I bet she is eyeing being a stay at home mom, right?

Rage Against the McKee · « **Reply #68 on:** March 03, 2015, 01:45:42 PM »

How many kids does she want?

420seriouscat69 · « **Reply #69 on:** March 03, 2015, 01:54:34 PM »

Not sure. We want kids, but not for awhile. we laugh at it now. However, she does well for herself and I think what she perceives normal is houses with pools, horses, trips around the world, and kids to go a long with it. Going to a Royals game when I was growing up was a big deal to our family and I've already surpassed them in those type of life events, so I think I'm doing OK. Different worlds you guys.

CNS · « **Reply #70 on:** March 03, 2015, 02:34:30 PM »

That second gen BBQ money ruins everything.

CNS · « **Reply #71 on:** March 03, 2015, 02:35:06 PM »

Horses, pools, travel. Start by having her pick one.....

Mr Bread · « **Reply #72 on:** March 03, 2015, 02:38:20 PM »

I am inclined to believe that it is a positive that she is very clear with you about what she expects. That's fair.

Mr Bread · « **Reply #73 on:** March 03, 2015, 02:43:32 PM »

However, saying that she wants horses makes her seem silly to me. Like a child.

CNS · « **Reply #74 on:** March 03, 2015, 02:51:32 PM »

Quote from: Mr Bread on March 03, 2015, 02:38:20 PM

I am inclined to believe that it is a positive that she is very clear with you about what she expects. That's fair.

There is something to be said for this, but it seems like it should have happened earlier.